6:00 am.. I am 40 weeks 2 days pregnant.. My husband wakes me, and ask me if I want him to take the dog out. Mind you,…

Like seriously I set up the crib and bassinet and stroller and car seat and the pack n play. He didnt do shit but help build the crib. 😑

Tbh, if my husband would've said something like that ^^ to me, I would've left then to let him figure out if he wants a wife or a maid. I'm sorry @gingermama I'm praying he starts getting it when labor starts.

If he doesnt help with the baby, and house when the baby is born? I'm definitely going home to my mother, and taking the child with me. At one point when we first moved in he had the nerve to say I had a week to make the house completely spotless, and if I didn't he would by me a train ticket back home, and the baby can stay with me too. So Ill take that advice if he fucks up again. Im not going to be treated like a cheap maid.

You just need to relax. I know it is hard work, I am 37 weeks, my son dropped like 6 weeks ago and I can barely move some days because of the pain, but if I don't clean or do the laundry I never hear the end of it. Stay strong! It's hard and I am in the same boat as you. I'm only 20 and my husband and I got married only back in April. My family (who is close by) isn't supportive at all, when I mention anything about it to them they just get on me saying it isn't that hard :( have you tried finding someone who can walk your dog for you? If I could I certainly would for you. But you need to not get too upset, men are just oversized toddlers who think they don't have to do anything. Focus on the baby, and focus on you. If he doesn't get his shit together I would say go back to your mom, I know you want to keep your family together and it is hard but you don't want your child to grow up in that kind of environment do you? If you're having a girl she'll think it's ok for men to treat her that way or if you're having a boy he will learn it is ok to do that... I know I had to do that with mine and he straightened up real quick.

if it doesn't get better, take your child and go home... you're going to be a great baby but your having one baby, not 2

I hate it. I feel sick and want to throw up now. I just want to have this baby already.. I know it might make things better. He might be happier when our son is here.. I dont think he would be mad about toys.

yes most men need to be put in the child category at some points lol. for some reason a lot of people don't think being a stay at home mom is a job and hard work! youre doing great mama pay him no mind

He doesnt understand that I was 19 and he was 22 when we agreed on who would do what in the house. He would work, I would care for the house, and child. It was easy to say it then, when I had no idea how to keep a home, or a child. Things change when you are GROWING. UP. which he cant seem to fucking do. Im raising 2 children I guess.

No he wont. Hes gonna force me into a job if I dont clean the house spotless, and the other option to that is being sent home to my mom, cause he hates cleaning. He refuses to clean.

You are more of a patient woman than I am! My husband was the same way until I went a week without touching a single thing, which mind you we have 3 other kids.... He was bitching I told him to fuck off and that was that now he helps without me asking because he knows I will go on strike! You are 40 weeks pregnant! Relax! :) hell get over it

@gingermama, your house could be filthy and that doesn't mean you are a bad mom! Some men just don't understand what we do with our lives. Don't overthink it. He is a man and has high standards. Maybe try talking to him. Maybe he doesn't understand pregnancy pain. I'm not trying to make excuses for him just saying that sometimes a little communication can go a long way. I'm 35 weeks and let me tell you this pain is awful. Some days I don't even get out of bed!