having second thoughts about this baby ,
idk I just feel like I should place it for adoption because its going to be born into a family where it's dad is an alcoholic and never has time for his family and I don't think I will be able to manage working with two kids and keeping things down around the house:/ ugghh
Give yourself some time to get adjusted ... You never know what may happen within the next 9 months that can totally change your view !! Good luck ... And stay positive
you'd be blessing some one with a beautiful gift. :) eaither way you'll make the right choice for your baby.
It'll get better 💛 whatever you do decide to do for your children is what's best for them. You sound like a great mom 💛
thanks ladies, idk whats getting over me tonight I'm just kinda depressed about this all a sudden I was excited but now I'm just like ... so ya.... cool I guess :/ @dijahhh @canaryv
^^ agreed! You have plenty of support on here to get you through whatever you choose. Message me if you need to vent!
I'm sorry you're feeling that way but even if you do decide on adoption it's a beautiful option. I hope it doesn't come to that unless you really want to
There are a lot of resources out there for expectant mothers. Try googling some adoption counselors and agencies in your area and they can give you a lot of good information even if you don't go the adoption route. There are also a lot of parent profiles on adoption.com that you could look through if you're curious what type of people are out there - maybe you would feel really great about somebody. Anyway, good luck! It's such a personal choice and is one that you should have complete ownership over.