so I am frustrated but to the point where I am just going to go auto pilot and do everything on my…
so I am frustrated but to the point where I am just going to go auto pilot and do everything on my own. my s/o isn't there mentally and well I am 5 mos preggo ..I just started by buying things and he still doesnt want to talk about the baby. he said that he is happy about being a dad but comes around a whole lot less ...he also does things last minute .I like to be prepared u am frustrated and I don't feel like I should be depending in him for things u don't want to be stressed at the end of this all. I mean I already have a lot to think about with the baby on the way..and getting affordable daycare and my job. #just frustrated 😞😭
Jessie Grooms·
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sometimes it doesn't hit them tell the baby is born
Kayla·
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Even Though I was Prepared meaning had everything for my baby girl It really didn't hit me until after she was born crazy I know and even then she had to spend 4 weeks in nicu I was there everyday but when I brought her home it was like a slap in the face omg I'm a mom FOREVER this isn't like baby sitting lol what I mean it it might just take that moment seeing the baby and holding the baby for him to realize that ohh this is real
candice·
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I understand. I hope so. this is both of our first and has been so long since I have been around a baby. I am doing the best I can. it doesn't help that I am in an area where I don't have any friends or family near by so I have to figure everything out on my own with no support group and no one to talk to
bria·
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@candice1234, I'm in the same boat as far as having no friends or family in the area. My SO family and I are not in contact. So legit everything is up to me. My SO has a son from his first marriage, and even with that factored in- he was and still is (majority) mentally absent a lot. He's come around a lot more now that I'm due in a little over a month, but if I've learned ANYTHING in my pregnancy- it's to never let someone steal your happiness. I know how much it hurts honestly it really does... But just remember; your little companion is with you 24/7 ! Best wishes mama💋
candice·
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how are you getting through it? sometimes I just want to cry and yell and etc. but then I have to think that I have to be strong for the baby. I can't break down but sometimes o really really need to
bria·
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Oh I break down a lot. It's okay. Everyone does. I've cried more in my pregnancy out of sadness than anyone ever should.. However it is important that you pick yourself up. It's not easy to accept- but you have to accept the situation for what it is- there is nothing you can change, you can't force other people's actions you know? But you can control your own. So make yourself and the baby your priority!! You will realize at some point that you are stronger than you know, bc you become so in love with your baby you can't even imagine anything else !