How do I explain to my husband why I have so much fear to have our son?

Can you give a little more info on why you have fears or are nervous?

I only ask because it looks like you already have a daughter, so I'm throwing out first time mommy worries.

Being nervous is normal, and him not being supportive doesn't help. he DOES realize that no matter how nervous you are of the actual birth, you ARE going to do it, right? Most women feel a bit of apprehension-- every birth is different and you can never know exactly how it will go!

I'm 31 weeks tomorrow and we have been having struggles for a while now. Even before I was pregnant. We thought things were better but just turned out in finding its now.

I'm nervous to have him with out the knowledge of us ending it or working it out. I'm also nervous of the pain and of the unknown that can happen. @ttc.at.38

@heavenwings Tell your husband straight up (no hinting or beating around the bush here) that you are scared and you need his support. Tell him you need him to tell you it is all going to be ok.

The trained hospital staff will help with the bumps during delivery. Take deep breaths, you will do fine.

Keep your head up - you CAN do this!!

Thank you!! I feel my anger gets the best of me. I don't know if it's hormones or be just being my normal sensitive self! I feel I don't want him around me when I even have our son. Which brakes my heart!! I feel like it's just emotions but I want it to go away. I love him but feel so angry with him too.. How can I change these last two months and have it be beautiful and happy. I feel I am going through the a brake down. @ttc.at.38

@heavenwings Those darn hormones...Maybe he's scared too. Try to sit down and have a no BS talk. It may really help. Bring a box of kleenex. Sometimes the only way to soar is to hit rock bottom first. Good luck, my dear. We are here for you :)