I got you love ❤️ nobody has any place to judge on here truthfully. You're going a great job, it can be tough. I have days too where I'm on edge. But you're doing everything you can for your baby, and you are the only one that can know that 💕

Okay I hope it works out for you.

👍🏻 @megbaby07 , I wasn't trying to be sassy. Every time I have asked for advice or simply vented I have been judged. On top of the fact I am on edge due to not having ANY help with my baby since day one.... I am exhausted and fed up all at once. I just simply wanted to state something. I would not let my baby cry if I knew something was wrong. But like @megbaby07 said, I don't want him to be too use to being held alllllll the time. He would never fall asleep on his own if I did that. If he has been fed burped and changed and held for a little afterwords, I know it's only bc he dropped the pacifier. Which I'm trying to teach him to not need 24/7. That's all... @taylorrleee1

woah don't be sassy I was just trying to help in case you didn't know that babies actually have a NEED to be held sometimes.

You're welcome. I didn't feel like it was needed for you to be jumped on when you simply just posted to explain that you didn't like to hear your baby cry. Plus how you choose too teach your child is your choice. So I didn't think it was fair. Because I for one agree that some babies need to cry. I know my baby if I hold her too much she gets accustom too it because I tested it after not picking her up every time she cries. I know her cries when she needs something or in pain or if she just wants attention.

Ok excuse me ladies, I did not put this up to be judged. My own pediatrician, told me, he can learn to self sooth, he learns to use his thumb instead of always the passy. I was simply sharing that I DO NOT like it when my baby cries. Iv been told by 3 doctors now, if he is burped, fed, changed. Then they simply will cry sometimes. It's called the "purple phase". Do not comment on my post if you are going to judge me. We all have different doctors, and situations. I'd never do that to you. Thanks thank you @megbaby07 for having my back. @taylorrleee1 @127lovie

I see what you mean! I'm dealing with this atm lol.. I've already fed, burped and changed my baby. She's so fussy right now and she keeps pushing out her pacifier and starts crying. I try not to hold her that much when she cries cause then she'll always want momma's arms lol😩 just hold the pacifier for him and play some lullabies.. It's working so far for me!

Kacey is the same way, and they don't always cry for something and I know that. My daughter will cry after being changed, fed and everything and after a second of letting her cry she will just start laughing and talking. Some babies cry just too cry. But she doesn't even like her pacifier anymore lol she found her fingers

Two months they don't learn anything from crying it out. Babies in orphanages don't cry because they know that no one is coming. That's all you're teaching him.

If a baby that young is crying, there's a reason. That's their way of communicating that something is wrong, you shouldn't let him cry it out until he's older, like a yearish or a little younger. Newborns have a NEED to be held, it's not a want, they don't know any different.

But, I can't be replacing his passy every time he drops it in the middle of the night. @127lovie , he is 2 months @taylorrleee1

This is controversial. You don't HAVE TOO

how old is he?