im scared of everything right now due to my last pregnancy was ectopic and im 11 weeks but im scared of having…

im 37 weeks and still scared some of the time. i miscarried twice last year. my husband is so supportive and my midwife is awesome. i have relaxed more since being able to feel baby move but dont think ill fully relax until baby is in my arms. see if yr midwife can offer any advice x

Oh hun I.dont think it will ever go away once you know what can happen it's there in.the back.of your mind I've lost 3 all at 12 wks and had to take.pessaries to help.sustain Bow an I'm 27 wks almost 28 and I'm much more comfortable now than I was in the beginning. have a word with Mw to ease your fears

thank you so much @stephy95 will keep that in mind hun xx

I know exactly how you feel, I lost my baby girl at 8 weeks back in August and then in November I had an ectopic pregnancy, I'm now 11 weeks and 6 days and still quite scared..always here if you want to have a chat hun! try focusing on things like baby names and look online at things you'd like to buy for the baby..it's surprisingly helpful!!❤❤

thank you xx

I was the same with this pregnancy.. Paranoid about Everything!! I think it eases a bit when you start to feel baby move a lot.. You do have to try and not worry so much tho.. What will be will be I'm afraid.. You have to remember tho that most pregnancys do go ahead to produce heathy babys!! Sit back, relax & enjoy your baby growing inside you ❤️💙

If you're anxious about all the things that could go wrong maybe you should have a chat with you midwife about it who may be able to recommend a councillor or something similar. It's quite common to be very worried when you've had previous issues, the best thing is to talk through them x