Mommas new and experienced:
Hoping not too TMI, but as a first time mom I've been trying to.figure out what's normal vs. concerning...
I just gave birth 2 weeks ago, it was a very fast delivery and I had a 2nd degree tear. my stitches feel like they're healing okay and it's just on the inside of my perinium/labia... but 2 weeks later my clitoral area is extremely sore. Like an achy, bruised feeling. I can't see anything but I have 0 sensation (ppsitive) when it's touched, it just hurts. has anyone experienced this after vaginal delivery? When does the sensitivity come back? I'm so scared I won't ever get the sensation back and that's not going to be fun to deal with... 😔 I don't see my OB for another month. thanks in advance!
@tiffanyxomarie1, @bellahali thank you ladies SO MUCH, I've been googling and freaking out because especially during pregnancy I was SO sensitive and my drive was crazy, now nothing...I've been worried it'll never come back... I'm so glad to hear of hope around 6 weeks pp! Good timing since that is the recovery "clear" period :) thanks again!
The sensation does come back. I totally forgot about mine and I'm 6 weeks PP! It felt so weird I hated it. Doctor said it had something to do with estrogen. Hormone imbalances.
But one good thing I did get all sensation back and everything is normal now!
This happened to me also! It got so bad that I had to wear my husbands old boxers because I couldn't wear my own underwear due to being tight and rubbing. :( I was constantly putting a cold washrag or tucks pad down there. It went away about a week before my 6 week postpartum appointment, I completely forgot to ask my doctor so I don't really have any advice, just know you're not alone!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Currently going through the same thing it's so uncomfortable and annoying . I've heard it could be from the catheter !