@dcb012 I don't mind either way honestly, I also have plenty of time and attention to give my family because I stay at home. I do want to enjoy each baby properly and I don't feel like being pregnant will disrupt that unless I get a really tough pregnancy with tons of symptoms or something like that. Well, I guess we'll be chatting about it with my partner once baby 1 is here after all he has to be there to allow another life to start too if it comes to that 😛

Your baby fever will take over and you're extremely fertile..... It's what happen to us. We were going to do the same as it took us a year with my daughter to get pregnant and the very first time we got pregnant.... I'm just saying wait and experience the baby first. If it's such a blessing then enjoy that blessing while you can. Let that baby understand and be excited for a sibling, not rival and be jealous...

@dcb012 Hmm, it's good to get some perspective thanks! I might also just leave it to intuition and the universe to feel it out and decide what will happen, like we did with this baby, not consciously planned but such a perfect and amazing blessing 😊

Mine are 3 years apart and are AMAZING together!!! I also wanted my kids close and now that my middle and my youngest are going to be 18 months apart I'm kinda sad.... I'm so exhausted and uncomfortable from this pregnancy I don't get to enjoy my daughter nearly as much as I did my son.....

@dcb012 There's that side of it, but then there's also that I'd love for my kids to be close in age if we do want another one. It'd be pretty convenient for many reasons although stressful the first few years. So I'm not sure 😖

Wait!!! Enjoy your first. Enjoy your firsts that the baby does. Don't spoil it by rushing to have another.... And kids can stress a relationship. Make sure you know what you're getting into first as well.