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shaquea

So I need to figure out what I'm going to wear during labor. Everyones talking about going home outfits but my baby won't have a take home outfit cause he'll be born at home but what do I labor in? the plan is to deliver him in the birthing pool so I don't tear again but I don't wanna just be walking around naked when I'm getting in and out of the pool and I can't have on shorts it'll be too hard to get off lol

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quea

shaquea

lol yea a water birth.

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polancobaby

Karolyne PolancoВ ожидании первенца

i guess i missed that part! lol u should get like those skirt bottoms!! that bathsuit ones

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polancobaby

Karolyne PolancoВ ожидании первенца

oh are you have a water birth?!?!?!

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elenalee

Elena LeeМама двоих (младенец)

Hmmm, there are fabrics that don't cling when wet... Maybe you could find a sundress or swimsuit cover up?

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quea

shaquea

I just don't want the gown to be all wet and clinging to me cause I know it'll drive me nuts lol. Sorry I'm so picky @elenalee

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elenalee

Elena LeeМама двоих (младенец)

What about a nursing gown? That way you don't need to wear bottoms but your covered and when baby gets there you can pull the top down for skin to skin. Motherhood always has cute ones.

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quea

shaquea

@polancobaby, lol yea that's something I would do. I'm only that comfortable around my husband and my best friend. I used my breastfeeding cover up when it was just me and my sister we never had that close relationship I know I would feel so awkward so I definitely need to find bottoms unless I just keep a towel near the pool so as soon as I get out I can wrap it around me or something

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polancobaby

Karolyne PolancoВ ожидании первенца

oh gosh!!!! thats my biggest fear !!!

but no girl ever since i became pregnant im like who cares who sees me down there lol its normal plus i have always been comfortable. i have three sisters and we used to just walk around in our underwear like no problem!!! but we are all different.

my husbands niece didnt want to breast feed infornt of us and i was like girl u are feeding ur child dont be like that. and she. got all shy.. lol

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quea

shaquea

@lilmommy93,

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quea

shaquea

@polancobaby, lol everyone tells me I'll be like that but I know I won't. When I had my daughter I straight up stopped pushing and told them not to let my mom and sister in because my legs were wide open and I didn't want them to walk in. I'm very conservative when it comes to not having my body out so I know I won't even be able to labor if I'm uncomfortable in that way. I did that with my 1st but it wasn't my perineum that tore, I tore inside my vagina like my cervix and some other parts and it was 4th degree tears so ultimately the oils and perineum presses didn't even matter.

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lilmommy93

AshleyМама сына-младенца

if you're having your baby at home I suggest lots of KY jelly and olive oil. I went through 2 bottles of each but I didn't have any tearing.

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lilmommy93

AshleyМама сына-младенца

my cousin bought the bikini bottoms from Walmart that have a tie so that she could be covered and then when it was time to deliver she could pull the string and they were off.

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polancobaby

Karolyne PolancoВ ожидании первенца

girl am about ro be naked wrll giving birth.. it my first baby and im like hell im already hot with a blanket on.. and labor will probably be worse!!! so im thinking nooooo clothes lmao

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quea

shaquea

Yea I was def going to do a sports bra but I'm talking for my bottom half. I need to cover in some way cause I don't feel comfortable getting out and my mom and sister and sister in law are there too lol

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mommyof1girl3boys

TraciМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I'd wear a sports bra or bikini top whichever is more comfy to you!

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sherrynygirl

sherry S

I 've heard women wear sports bras during that

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kellynicole

Kelly 🌻Мама сына-младенца

I would just wear a bikini top

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off h...

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