I'm on maternity leave and really struggling with the pay specially since I pay full rent and left with next to nothing once all my bills are paid. My son was 8 weeks Sunday past. How long before any mums went back to work and how did you feel about leaving them so early? I just feel like I have no other option than to go back to work 😔
luckily my parents are having my little boy. I'm going back in 2 weeks, when he's 19 weeks old. but I've got about 1000 extra debt now due to maternity pay not being enough x
I have the problem that I can't afford to not work but equally can't afford to put my kids in childcare full time. 😐
But with my son I did put him in childcare at around 11 months (I know that's a lot later on ☺) but while I found it difficult and odd my son seemed perfectly content. It helped me that he was happy as then I could go to work full time. x
Oh dear that's not nice. do you get help from government? are you getting maternity from your job?
Your baby is still young, try and get advice from CAB.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Yeah I'm getting maternity from my work but its pennies and does it not reduce after a certain time as well? I don't need to pay for childcare cause I'm lucky enough to have loads of family who will help out. I've phoned about tax credits and they said all i am entitled to is £36 every four weeks. I live with my partner and even though he works full time and gets decent wages it's not enough to support us for the month and for everything! Thanks for all your help I'll definitely phone CAB. I'm honestly stressing so much about it all!!