my husband and I refer to each other as, melinda and brooke. Now I promise he is a man, his mom named him brooke. Now for the kids, like when we say go ask the other parent we say, " Go ask momma, or go ask daddy."

me too!

I feel you. I don't refer to my ex as a "baby daddy", he's my daughters dad. My current husband is my husband lol. I hate those terms.