Damn I don't know what to say

but lately what I have noticed is that We rarely have sex. Sometimes its like once in 2 weeks. And that's when I usually catch Him watching porn throughout those days. And I will go try and turn things up bit He just ignores Me and says He's too tired. @camdens_mommy @mommy1915 so I'm pretty sure that it is affecting the marriage. I'm just soo tired of always confronting Him and not getting no answers.

@camdens_mommy, I was thinking about that lol just to see how He would react I'm pretty sure He'd be pretty pissed off.

He needs to get a grip cause this shit ain't right

Go get yourself a big ol dildo (sorry tmi) and got off with that, maybe even watch it yourself. Let him find out and see how he feels about it! If he needs that to get stimulated you can use something else too 😜 My SO has cut back a lot... And I just tell him as long as I have said "no" I'm not wanting too and he doesn't lie... Then I'm ok with it to help him get off. It's just a visual thing for them but it does lead to other problems so the excessive amount is not ok in my book.

@vee_bayybee_, I feel the same way I can't find an explanation to why He needs to watch it like I feel like He isn't satisfied. He has done other things in the past which make Me feel more insecure and keep asking myself why? They can stop but they don't want to stop. I feel disrespected when He watches all that stuff.

@mommy1915, exactly what I say bit He makes Me look like I'm crazy and exaggerating about it saying all guys do it. Um no there's guys who actually respect their wife and stop watching that stuff.

@mo0430, I agree like when guys are single I understand why they'd watch it but while being married? Makes Me soo mad.

@mommyof2princessesp mine does the Same. i think almost everyday he watches but I'm guessing its not going to stop so I'd complain at first but nowni just deal. it sucks makes me feel unwanted and insecure but i guess its all guys

No guy needs to watch it everyday damn day

Girl

even when my husband and I were dating I made it very clear that I would not be with anyone who watched porn. I got lucky because he didn't like it anyways and expressed how I was going to be the only one he's attracted to. I also have a problem with masturbation, which my husband stopped, because if you want sexual acts performed then ask your SO to do it right? It's my personal opinion but I agree with you he shouldn't have to watch them he should be appreciative of what he has at home

Yess it really is @klarrissab 3 years dealing with this and still no change.

@mommyof2princessesp, I totally understand. Wow every other morning is excessive for sure. It's definitely a difficult situation to deal with!

Exactly! @mommy1915 I don't understand why they need to watch it when they have a wife already. The thing that makes Me more mad is that my husband will watch them do whatever and then wants to have sex afterwards like wtf why does He get turned on by someone else and I just feel used. But I can't make Him understand according to Him every guy needs to do that and its not bad at all. @mommy1915

I didn't care when We were dating either but now that We're married I just don't understand why He needs to watch it every other morning. I feel disrespected. I need to look into that. @klarrissab

Girl I hate that shit so much! My husband doesn't watch them anymore but when I was pregnant and i wasn't feeling good or it hurt to have sex he would go behind my back and watch porn and it's like why would you do that knowing that you have an actual person here for those kinds of things I mean sure sometimes we aren't comfortable to have sex some days but that doesn't mean they need to go watch stupid shit like that

Nope I personally don't, when I was just dating my husband I didn't care, but when we moved in together I had him stop. Porn addiction in men is real and can lead to erectile dysfunction among other problems. I studied it in my human sexuality class and there is also a great TedTalk by Philip Zimbardo called "The Demise of Guys?" That goes into detail about it.