So me and my bf split up tonight and I'm finally leaving him for good bc I know it's best for our daughter that she not grow up in an abusive home, I'm really upset bc I did really love him but I know he'll never change and I love my children to much for any of them to live in that kind of life. My daughter is due in just a few weeks and I'm wanting to change her name bc the name I had only goes with his last name and so in order to use my last name now I need to change her whole name anyone have any suggestions?
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@smileeey, actually I do like the middle name Lynn that's my middle name and I think it would be a great idea to use as her middle name to since she's my first daughter.
@goodbyelullabye, You're right, It might of took me to end up having a bad busted eye and shattered glasses tonight but I'm just glad it's over with and I won't ever have to talk to him again the police even advised me not to put him on the birth certificate so he wouldn't have any rights unless he went through courts to get legitimized as the father but he wouldn't bc he's on drugs. But I hope things get better for you as well and all we can do is stay strong and do good for our babies.
@kirsten92 yeah it's better to get rid of him now before the baby is born. I loved my husband too but I can't have him drinking around the baby. he always says just one drink and comes back totally wasted. I felt so relieved the night my husband left. now I'm just scared of a custody battle because he's a petty man. Hopefully things will get better for you.
@smileeey, first and middle name ideas would be really appreciated. I had planned on naming her Mila Alexandra but it doesn't sound good at all with my last name.
You want a middle name too or just like some first name ideas @kirsten92
@goodbyelullabye, yeah he's an alcoholic also and he's taking methadone and his ex witch is the other mother of his other daughter who is a meth head always calls he thinks he can make up some bs like saying I have a problem with his daughter when I don't and tries to take all his anger out on me and physically and verbally abuse me that's why I'm just glad to be done with him finally tonight
sounds like the same thing I'm going through with my husband. he's going to be mad when he finds out the baby's middle name is not his middle name anymore. I don't want my son to have the name of an alcoholic. I'm still deciding if he should take my maiden name or not.
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But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
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