My husband has Sundays and Mondays off and works doubles almost everyday the rest of the week so I've sort of got used to the fact that Sundays and Mondays are our day to spend time together. Well today he spent from 1 pm to 5:30 at a friends (I thought he was only going to be there for an hr or so) and when he finally got home he asked me if he can go over again tomorrow. I don't have a problem with it, in fact I'm glad he has someone he wants to hang out with but at the same time I feel so upset about it. I feel so selfish for feeling like this but Sundays and Mondays are MY days to have him all to myself!! I just don't know how to make myself calm down over this because I feel so stupid even being upset about it. Sorry for venting a little, I just really needed to be able to say it somewhere.
@deafmama16, if he decided not to go I think I would actually feel worse because he never gets to go do anything that doesn't include me in some way other than work. We normally have friends together so we both can go but this particular friend smokes a lot in his house so I don't feel comfortable going over there anymore.
had this same problem a week or two ago):