last night my brother had one of his blow ups, and tried convincing the sheriff that was choked slammed by our father (who mind you, isn't even able pick up my 30 pound 4 year old, let alone a 180 pound 23 year old). He's mildly retarded, but he also knows how to milk every situation. He's only been home since Halloween, and has lied about everything. Including my daughter's Easter candy just magically ending up in his room eaten. (ya the little dick ate 5 bags of candy in less then a day and claimed he had nothing do with the garbage being hidden in his room) but last night was the worst thing he's done so far. he ran away saying he was going to kill himself, so my bf and dad followed him to make sure he didn't do anything stupid. he slipped and fell while trying to run on a rocky edge by the river, and turned it into him getting choked slammed. so my mom and dad decided last night he needed to go back to the state facility because none of us can handle his blow ups. the sheriff took him over to my sister's and he filled her full of garbage, and with whatever he said to her got DCFS sent to MY house to investigate my daughter being abused and me and my bf being on drugs. first off, the ONLY time my daughter gets into any trouble is when she is disrespectful, lies, or steals. what child wouldn't? her hair was cut because she ripped it out because she thought it was fun and no matter what we did she wouldn't stop. it wasn't abusing her. and as for us being on drugs, really?!? we don't even allow cigarettes in our house, why the fuck would we allow what ever kind of drug you said we were using into it? the sheriff couldn't tell DCFS what drug we are supposedly using, so they couldn't pin point anything, but tested us for everything. and guess what, WE ARE BOTH CLEAN!!! and now parents want me to forgive my brother for lying to the cops and having DCFS show up to my house. I almost went to jail last year for DEFENDING my daughter because he hit her, and now this shit?? how the fuck could they even ask me to forgive him?!?!?
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I'm in the same boat with my brother. He isn't even close to being slow or retarded he just doesn't care. He shows up at my house unannounced and didn't leave for three days and didn't even ask me if that was ok, let his daughter trash my house, left her with my 8 year old daughter while I was taking a nap and his daughter is only 2 and very high maintenance, lied to us about being on probation, came back at 2 am from being gone all day and woke my husband up to smoke weed (which my husband was pissed about cuz he had to work at 5 am), invited some bitch I didn't even know to my house at 2 am, tried to smoke pills out of a pipe with my kids in the next room sleeping, left the crushed pills on the freaking counter where I prepare food and on the kitchen table where my kids eat, and then I found out he was actually hiding out at my house cuz he had cleaned out his ex girlfriends bank account cuz he had her card after she got her taxes deposited. Talk about not being able to forgive somebody! I won't ever forgive him, he could've killed my kids! And yes I called cps on him after he left cuz he had the nerve to push me on my stomach when I kicked out the door and I was like 28 weeks along at that point. I know ur struggle, sometimes u just can't forgive people.
there isn't any way possible for me to forgive him. he is ONLY MILDLY retarded, and they only diagnosed him as that beside he is a slow learner. when he hit my 4 year old (they are 20 years apart in age) I flipped a biscuit and hit him, not hard, but enough to get attention. I almost went to jail because my mom pulled the "he'd never hurt anyone he just didn't understand it's not OK to hit a toddler". and then last night he said I was beating her and doing drugs.. seriously?!? I have never been so angry in my life. I'm 26 weeks today, and have been high risk, and him pulling his crap has me on my way to labor and delivery to stop labor again. but my parents want me to forgive him, as my mom says, "he just doesn't understand what he's doing". but he does... oh he knows EXACTLY what he's doing. and here's doing it for attention, he's doing it so he doesn't have to do anything but play his stupid video games!