I want to cry everytime I sit and think bout how I'm NOT TAKING PICTURES OR HAVING A BABY SHOWER WTF ❗ ❗ ❗ ❗ ❗

@junesmommy15 thank u i REALLY appreciate those compliments... it really made my day!!! :) glad I was able to give some advice where it was needed... we all need help sometimes. or at least a different perspective on a situation... it's hard to see the positives in a bad situation when your heart is clouding your judgment...

@junesmommy15, thank you so much. I appreciate it. Makes me feel a whole lot better as a teen/ young adult mom. 💖💖 God bless you n may more blessings come your way. All of us. 😌

@justine_kim You are a wonderful mom already. I'm so glad with the advice that you gave her. My baby had new things because my church family threw me a surprise babu shower, but we bought nothing but used stuff. I just wrote the same thing about changing a baby on your lap, bed, floor or anything. You have the right mind! I don't know either one of you but I am so happy that you was blessed with all of that and that you Gabe such wise advice. Bless you both!

@justine_kim,

Yea I'm 35 weeks tho n it could b much worse but I'm thankful for the little I have. He is not in the picture well he is but he really don't benefit us at all. Literally. N hope so to. God bless you as well n stay strong. 💖💖😪 it will all soon b over.

you can do it... dont stress yourself out too much mama... it could be soooo much worse. im 28 and this is my first baby too but it's just as hard... at least at 19 u have a lot of energy and your baby daddy is in the picture... hopefully he'll come around for the best and help out more. feel better mama ❤

Yea your right. I just want to be the best mother I can be. Especially at my young age. I'm only 19

Wow that is amazing. I didn't know they had stuff up there that's new. Ima check it out tbh. You have a good deal n yes some ppl are nice n sweet but then there's others to bash u. This one lady sells diapers n I brought 5 boxes for 75$. Size nb n size 1. Everytime I find money or sum I try my best on the little things I can get

sorry i posted alot lol i just wanted u to see the awesome deal i got :) i never had anything brand new growing up since im the youngest of 5 kids... when im financially stable again, I'll get my son anything i can afford but im gonna raise my boy to appreciate anything he receives no matter what the cost... spoiling kids with brand new stuff is getting overrated... lol they're gonna shit and drool on everything they see. when im done with his clothes im gonna end up selling them back on craigslist to another mama who will need them and I'll help her out the same way that lady helped me. circle of life kinda help... we all need to be more kind and appreciative. dont cry over targets baby stuff lol that place overcharges anyway!!! 😝

and diapers(they were in diaper cakes but theyre the organic baby diapers and theyre very good quality...she gave me size newborn and size 1 & 2)

i got all this and more... for 40 on Craigslist...they ALL look brand new. no stains or nothing..i have tons of onesies in all sizes until 12 months... socks, caps, pajamas etc

i read what u posted and im sorry u went through that... u know what i did??i never told anybody this but i went on craigslist and i bought a bundle of clothes for $40 :) and the lady who i met up with was texting me all day and i told her i was on a budget and i was probably not going to buy her baby clothes but she felt so bad that i was a single mom that she ended up giving me two diaper cakes and a big blanket and extra clothes..all for 40 bucks 😉 people can be kind and understanding. i haven't bought a brand new thing for my baby... I'll change his diapers on my bed and lay him on some towels or blankets. it's going to be fun :) no need to buy all that fancy stuff for their "nursery" girl...ur baby is literally going to be next to you for the next couple of months lol

Wow free car seat that's nice. I wish I could get that. Your blessed in Many ways. I'm pretty we will be fine. Women no matter what race always survive storms n struggles. Crying being alone all that it's going to happen not all men are strong enough like us women to withstand the pressure n responsibilities so don't worry. I'm trying not to. @justine_kim

You see what I just posted about what just happened to me. It's so depressing n heart breaking but it's ok. It's ok Ima strong girl. I came a long way

@justine_kim, I'm in tears crying right now from reading that u wrote n u right. All a baby really needs is its mother.

and if i cant afford a stroller I'll wear my baby in a wrap/sling... shit my mom did with me when I was a baby lol and i have Medicaid and through superior insurance theyre giving me a free carseat next week for attending a baby seminar class.... im grateful for that :) my son will be good no matter what.... fuck a baby shower and pictures...lol I'll provide anything he needs WHEN he needs it...it's better than stocking up on things that he may never use or fit into 👌😊

dont stress about pushing someone to man up when they won't..it's not good for the baby. i know i have to do all of this on my own and it's ok... yea it really hurts and im so lonely but the thought of my son coming soon overshadows any sadness im feeling... my baby daddy did not give ONE dollar to me for the baby.. he's a big heroin addict anyway so what did i expect... he was sober when we met and after being a month pregnant, he relapsed and i knew i was on my own right then and there. girl im not even tripping anymore. i cant change anything he's done. as long as i have clothes and diapers for my son then im good... my breasts will have all the milk he needs and i have a good roof over my head so i got nothing to stress about.. im not worried about having a crib or anything fancy right now. my baby wont need anything but me.don't forget that...

@justine_kim, omg wow 💔💔💔 I pray for us both honestly. This is messed up. Like he doesn't want to be me just cause I'm telling him to do his part pay for stuff.

im not either... no baby pics & no baby shower... plus my baby daddy just got locked up again so im really alone even when i deliver... it'll get better