So my daughter is used to sleep on my chest even though it's been over 8 months since her brother was born and i am breastfeeding him. still my daughter isn't wiling to let go of that habit. when it's time to go to sleep and we are on bed I have to put baby boy to sleep first than hold her on my chest so that she will sleep. I don't mind but her sleeping schedule it's out of order. she sleeps late at night than takes a nape around 4-5pm than sleeps at 12midnight. I tried changing her sleeping schedule but it's hard bc i am the only one dealing with both of my children who's schedule isn't the same at all. as soon as one of them falls a sleep the other one wakes up than the other sleeps another wakes up.
I understand they aren't the same but as long as they are healthy that's all it Matters to me.
I am a litter upset bc their doesn't have patience to hang out with either or for mother than 5min. I haven't seen a dentist since a was pregnant with my son that's over 1yr.
I can't run any more I mean exercise as I use to and i need to lose some stomach fat.
or even when we go shopping he can't stand how our daughter runs around the market.
lets not forget I can't go shopping for myself. (all the shopping I do online).I get to do the laundry at midnight as well as folding cloth and other house work.
I don't wane argue with my SO but I really wane him to know how I fell and ask for some real help from him. I have been saying some words here and there but he isn't really getting my point. again I don't wane argue with him but I need some help.
Any advice lady's 😣😣😣
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@tinushja84, best advice is to talk it out. Tell him how you feel. To the naps, take her nap away for a day or two and then put her down at 11am. It's hard at first, but it was the only way i could get my son on a regular napping schedule. Although, he slept so much better those nights, too. Lol. The bed time it's all about consistency. Well, discipline in general. It's the biggest struggle as a mom. My kids still stay in the buggy if they can't hold onto it and they are 5 and 7. They can throw a fit all they want, but I'm not letting some creep take off with my kids. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Even if it's constantly. Fight through him getting irritated that your asking. You're not the only parent and that's what the spouse is there for. You've got this momma, don't stress it. :)
thx @kejs0911 , my SO doesn't wane our daughter to cry . and that's what she is good at doing crying to get it her way. she refuses to help on her bed , she cries when I ask her to sleep on her own bed than the baby boy will not help either when he hears his sister crying. it's a nightmare 😣😥😣😥😣