started my induction last night around 845-9pm, called my son's father to let him know around 645-7pm, I could tell he was drinking. come to find out he was drunk as it gets... he texts me today asking if I was in the hospital yet... and then proceeds to text me and tell me to call him if anything were to change because he's going back to bed. must be rough being a drunk and having your priorities all fd up. grrr.
doesn't he wanna be there ? freakin douche
He will probably drink and forget the first name anyway. I thank god mine doesnt drink anymore.
I wouldn't let him know shit either. Just come home with the baby. He's wrong on so many levels 😩
@gingermama, that's a good point! I might honestly give my son my last name, I'm so upset and embarrassed by him...
They will be more than happy to lie for you, just tell them to say No one can be in the room for sanitary reasons or some shit. He sounds dumb enough to believe it.
I would ignore him and have the nurses keep him out.
@mama_icie, oh I know, I just was mad because he didn't even remember that I told him I was being induced, he's an hour and a half away from my hospital he wouldn't have came here anyways. this is my second induction and the first one he was only there for maybe 20 total minutes then left and didn't come back because I should just text him if something happens.
dont let him know anything from now on he wants to focus on being a drunk let him thats not safe atound baby
@mama_icie, I figured he wouldn't drink but boy I was wrong
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I wish I had a Man by My side who understood the pain of first trimester. So long story short..BD asks Me if I need to pee before He showers I say No. Then after he's in the bathroom for quite sometime he comes out and says he's about to shower..I said I thought You already showered. He said No. Anyway mid shower I have to pee so I text him telling him I have to pee because I dare not knock on the door unless I want to get yelled at and called names. He comes out yelling at Me anyways telling M...
What do you think???? I know that I over reacting but me and the father of my kids are not in good terms.. I ask my mom to give the kids to him that's it. but he have her money to get stuff without telling me...she help him with getting a car after all he did to me...he not wanting my daughter and not been with my kids a full weekend.. I'm been doing everything alone.. I call him and he was that's not of your business.... I don't call his family at all how he is with my kids.. I'm about to give ...
screw it just leave him outta the loop n have ur baby and don't respond to him take his ass for child support n it is what it is he did it to him self