@_idekcats, exactly. I have a 3 year old and if I would go for a week he'd have a blast at his dad's (we share custody) but I can't leave her. My SO wants a bunch of friends to go. I think he's hitting that point of realizing his partying is over and he's wanting to go all out but I would have a terrible time and she could get sick or anything and I'd be 10 hrs away. I could do a weekend trip at the end of August and be okay leaving her for 2 days but that's the most I would do.

I'm due July 18th and my dad wanted to go one a family trip to the beach August 7th - 14th. I'm sure I'm gonna go over my due date and there's no way I could leave my daughter that close to her being born. I'm completely understanding how you feel. I won't be able to do anything all summer because I'm due right in the middle and it'd be nice to get away but I can't leave her. 😩