So husband and i have been actively ttc for about 4 months. this week we found out im pregnant. since finding out hes been lovely. but i cant help but think its not actually what he wants. he's being all sorts of reserved and keeps leaving the house to go "hang out" . and im like "with who because we're in a totally different country. you know no one here " (we're in nz) so im guessing he's just trying to clear his head? but my anxious self always thinks the worst. like is this not what he wants?...right now. What do you guys think? am i overreacting?



it will get weirder once he starts taking on your symptoms lol no problem tho
Sometimes it doesn't fully hit them until your pregnant. Like my husband was fine about my pregnancy until o started showing and we found out the gender then he was another person. Men deal with stuff weird but I would still address it.
He's probably just processing the news.