so my orentation for wendys is today from 4-6, my aunt nor mom feel that i should be going because its only been a week…
so my orentation for wendys is today from 4-6, my aunt nor mom feel that i should be going because its only been a week since i had her. then her dad doesnt wanna watch her because he says thats too long to be leaving her! so i have to take her with me to orentation. plus i breastfeed , but i cant get a pump until i start producing more milk (says WIC & my insurance) so im thinking ima just have to do formula & milk. when shes not with me she can have formula and when shes with me i can breastfeed! but i just feel that i need to be working . i need money! i have probation to pay and a child to take care of and NO ONE IS HELPING ME PAY PROBATION OR BUY HER STUFF!! except the little gifts here and there! ANY ADVICE LADIES??
I would say call wendys and see if it's okay to bring baby to orientation with you. for the ladies saying she needs to wait, if her Dr has released her then she can go to work. bonding is bonding that baby is not gonna forget momma by her going to work. if she is the only one providing for baby then y'all should be praising her for stepping up and being a parent instead of expecting the govt. to pay for everything like a lot of girls from my town do.
I applaud you for working for your baby to have what baby needs and not caring what others say. I wouldn't!
I say you're one heck of a mama! Being a mom is already a challenge as it is and not having people to support or help out when you're trying to make ends meet can be even more challenging. I say do what's best for your you and your baby. no one is in your shoes and dealing wit your situation. know when to slow down, find the balance, etc. but it's really all up to you.
is her father working? I say do NOT work because you could easily exhaust yourself trying to do it all and that will lead to ppd or infections or collapse and you could end up in the hospital. then baby won't be breastfeeding anymore, the last thing you want is to get too sick. at least take off 3 more weeks. then go back in. call Wendy's and explain how exhausted you are. they will understand. or see if you can do orientation today and start in another month!
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
I can't believe it My cousin stayed with me rent free from September 2015 to April 2016 and her stuff is still in my apartment. She's been saying she was going to come get her stuff for months. She text me this morning saying that she was going to come and get her stuff soon, and I asked her if I could have her air mattress. She tried to charge me $60 for it. The air mattress sells new for $35 on amazon and she didn't even pay $60 for it. I didn't respond and she just text me saying the $60 was for a microwave she bought me and her air mattress. When she got the microwave, it was a gift. Then when my son was in the hospital from October to January out of town, I was going to get my internet service turned off until I returned home. My cousin was doing school work online, so I paid for it while I was away so she could use it. I'm trying to figure out a response to her. ?
What would you do? - baby shower SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever, I don't need her, I didn't have this baby for her to raise. I'm married, living on my own and paying all my own expenses.
I wanted to do one of these before our breastfeeding journey ended. I have a feeling it’s soon 😔 since her dr has us giving her formula to give her more calories, I’m finding it difficult to give her breastmilk as well. She gets full off of me alone so she doesn’t want the formula if I breastfeed her first. And if I give her formula first, she doesn’t want the breastmilk. I’ve been alternating feedings but that’s just caused my supply to drop. She’s getting chunky, though. That’s all I care about, really.
Kim·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (17 нед.)
I would say call wendys and see if it's okay to bring baby to orientation with you. for the ladies saying she needs to wait, if her Dr has released her then she can go to work. bonding is bonding that baby is not gonna forget momma by her going to work. if she is the only one providing for baby then y'all should be praising her for stepping up and being a parent instead of expecting the govt. to pay for everything like a lot of girls from my town do.
I applaud you for working for your baby to have what baby needs and not caring what others say. I wouldn't!
N.·
В ожидании первенца
I say you're one heck of a mama! Being a mom is already a challenge as it is and not having people to support or help out when you're trying to make ends meet can be even more challenging. I say do what's best for your you and your baby. no one is in your shoes and dealing wit your situation. know when to slow down, find the balance, etc. but it's really all up to you.
Tahtahme·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Also baby needs to bond with you! you need to keep her on you 100% until you go back so she is still attached to you when you start work again later.
Tahtahme·
Мама двоих (младенец)
is her father working? I say do NOT work because you could easily exhaust yourself trying to do it all and that will lead to ppd or infections or collapse and you could end up in the hospital. then baby won't be breastfeeding anymore, the last thing you want is to get too sick. at least take off 3 more weeks. then go back in. call Wendy's and explain how exhausted you are. they will understand. or see if you can do orientation today and start in another month!
Alexa·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
the more you feed her the more milk you produce, so the only advice I really have is to feed her a lot so that you can hopefully get a pump