My ex has been continuously lying and stealing. Hense why he's my ex now. I haven't truly chosen if he should get to be there for the birth of our daughter or not. He's spreading lies to my friends and family then continues to bother them. I've now told him to leave them alone but it's super frustrating. I could have this baby any day and he wants to cause me even more stress than I've already got. If anyone has any other advice besides involving the police I'm all ears. As of this moment it has stopped.
You poor thing. Do you feel that having him there when you're in labor will only stress you out more? If so, let him know he can see the baby after you deliver. And honestly you probably are safer letting him visit in the hospital because he can't pull any shit and try and take them anywhere. Do whatever you think is right and the best option for your babies !! And you're right I agree it's better for you to raise them alone than them see a dad who drops in and out of their lives when he wants to
@nichole_lynn,
he almost seems like he's going crazy. I told him we'll see and now he's going around saying I won't let him. he stole thousands from me and his parents. He either drank it away or gambled it. I know I can't stop him from being a father but I'm scared he's going to try to take my baby or my toddler. My toddler has no ties to him at all. I honestly want him to just go away forever. It's easier to raise them alone then with someone who is always stealing and lying.
girl, I wouldn't let him in that room unless he changes or if he absolutely truly wants to be. You can't hold him back from being a father (not saying you are) and if he's truly wanting to be their you should let him, unless you have a feeling some things going to go wrong with him.
I wouldn't let him in. he should of thought about the baby before he did stupid crap.