@martinajjones I mean Ii see where he's coming from I do, but you don't get ultrasounds every visit maybe only have him take off an hour

he doesn't want to lose the money. he makes about $100 for a days work and that money really helps for food and the bills. we are saving for our wedding so that helps also. @hermommy

@martinajjones mine says the same girl, he works in well drilling so he doesn't when have a set work schedule . But I'll be legit with you, most places know what it's like to have a FAMILY. He could get off if he really wanted to:(

I feel like my so feels like it's too soon to have another baby @kelseys he's really detached

My so works all day every day with only Sundays off cause he's in construction so it's hard for him to take the time off in the first place. But honestly he doesn't seem interested in going. he's always saying that we need the money more... I'm such high risk so I usually have 3-4 appointments a day so trips to the hospital last all day so he can't just call off for half a day because we never know what time the ultrasound will be. I told him my thoughts about losing the baby and all he says is that it won't happen again and if it does we can just try again. I really don't know what to do. @heera @hermommy @cubanese @jennatess @sweetpea_nut @xovonai @mrs.rcleveland @naomiedgd

tell him how it makes you feel, because after what you went thru, you need emotional support at your appointments. my husband doesn't go to my appointments but does to my ultrasounds.

thanks @hermommy i hope it get better for both of you. but men should also take the time to understand both parties feelings and not just their own. some men need time and thats ok...but its even the little things that show us they care. but always do Whats best for your baby💖💖💖

^^^ I agree with @heera she helped me realize my man had alot of growing up to do. We shouldnt have to force them or try to reason with them as to why they should come and WANT to see their baby😢 just talk to him girl i wish you the best❤

not to be rude dont take this the wrong way....bcuz you seem soooo sweet...i dont want you to bite me lol....but in my opinion thats fucked up...mine will not let me go without him he loves to be there...theres no way ide go alone....ide tell him that its his baby too and that he should be there to support you and the baby...but then again ide have a real one on one with him bcuz you never know he may be worried about the same thing your worried about hunn...we had an ultrasound this morning and my husband was soooo happy to see the heartbeat and the baby wiggle a little. ide really talk to him....😊😊😊💖💖💖💖💖

Tell him what you just told us. Tell him you need him there. For support.

My so never came but he's a marine so he can't just take off time like that. I wanted him to go at first but I liked coming home to show him. I found it more intimate. I'm sure he wanted to come with but I doubt it bothered him for not going especially since he knows I'll show/tell him about it. Some guys just aren't emotional about this kind of stuff like others.

My boyfriend sets the time of my appointments so, he can be at every last one. And you should t have to convince him. You both created that life growing inside of you. He should want to be there.

cant convince him, he has to want to go with you on his own.

i don't really think he's all that nice. Mine won't let me go without him.