Sex: since becoming pregnant my sex drive has went crazy, But my oh is scared to go to deep or to hard cause I recently had a bleed, Obviously this is very frustrating for me. I'm 11+wks, will my oh and I be able to have a good sex session without me having a bleed or without causing miscarriage. Any of you girls been able to have a good sex life while being pregnant, especially early stages. I'm so sorry that this post is quite forward🙈🙈🙈
I was put off all way through!! The thought made me feel ill lmao. Think you will be fine baby well protected up there☺️ xx
Sex will never be the cause for miscarriage hun :) I had a bleed at 8 weeks due to sex...the cervix was just irritated. Your bubba will be fine. They are surround by blood...water and the soft cushioning of your uterus. The cervix is thick and has a plug. So no matter how hard your husband goes. He can't reach or hurt the baby xx
Just usual, but the only way im comfortable these days is on the side, spooning. But although the position is grtting abit boring the sex isnt xx
For me, sex drive decreased significantly in first trimester, maybe one of the reasons was fear because I had bleeding during first trimester, especially after sex. but when I reached second trimester I feel like a bunny, having sex everyday. xx But sex doesn't hurt the baby.
@darciepenny So I can have wild sex and baby will be fine??? My oh better be prepared cause he's in for a surprise tonight🙈😂 I just hope I don't start bleeding.. So is baby totally protected even at 11+wks xxx
I'm almost 35 weeks and never had a problem with having sex.sex drive increased Deffo. Only thing that's changed is some positions aren't very comfortable because of bump. Xx
I bled early due to an erosion on my cervix but they aren't a serious thing, they said I could bleed a little bit after sex but never did and we went wild pretty much through my pregnancy, baby is really well protected in there x
@duchess92 Well me and my oh didn't have sex for about 8wks🙈 Only because we were both worried I'd misscarry since I was in the early stages, but because I've seen baby moving about on a scan and heard the heartbeat it makes me think it'd safe to go ahead. If your consultant said it's fine that gives me more confidence. @stacey804 are you still having your usual sex or is he more careful? My mans so careful but I just want him to make love to me the way we did before I got pregnant. xxx
Me and my oh are still having sex, although not as much as we used to. But I've never bled. He does panic, especially now the baby moves around, it freaks him out 😂😂 xx
@courtniegeexo @barnold My partners to scared to have a good sesh with me in case I bleed, I'm bloody pulling my hair out with frustration. @barnold if your midwife said its safe to carry on then that's good enough for me.😂 xxx
I feel your pain! me and my husband haven't been intimate since I was around 15 weeks because I bled and tore a little bit and he's too scared now - even though I've asked my consultant and she said sex is fine. he's scared he'll induce my labour because he found out that the pessary inducing gel has the same hormones as semen! 🙈 I'm literally begging lol x
@kim.m., haha love this 👌 my sex drive went majorly high in my first trimester.. had the odd tiny bleed but nothing major and my midwife said we were safe to carry on as normal.. Obviously if it's painful or bleeding becomes heavy or frequent just have a word with ur midwife xx
Ever since I had my bleeding at28 weeks I've not been bothered about it but I definitely feel sorry for that oh as before I was sex drive crazy lol xxx