Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
Tiffany Hull·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (26 нед.)
Yeah, I'm going to let it go especially since it was a while ago that it happened and I'm just now finding out. plus I don't want drama while we're in the middle of our case. I am definitely angry about it because he is only a child, but I also feel bad. He is no longer with that girl, but I just worry that it's still going on and I have no way of finding out if it is still going on because I'm not there. @janessamiraclemommy I definitely agree that if you don't anything nice to say it shouldn't be said, weather it be about the child, or parents or any family. @butterly234 I would have replied sooner but my phone didn't show I had any notifications.
Kimberly·
My soon to be step daughter said in the car on Sunday "don't worry dad moms like always late to pick me up anyway." I jumped right in and said: if we have nothing nice to say we don't say anything Alex. ESP if it's about mommy or daddy.
Janessa Ganuelas·
В ожидании первенца
I would definitely be pissed. but I would feel sorry for my child. he is only a baby for goodness sake. they shouldn't be talking about him like that at all. This is how I feel, talk shit about me all you want but you will keep your mouth shut when it's comes to my child. I'd let it go for the sake of your child. but if it keeps going on, I'd talk to his "father" about it.
Kimberly·
I would be pissed!!!
Tiffany Hull·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (26 нед.)
Oh yeah, that's not even the worst thing he or his family has done, not necessarily to my son in general but they are awful people and we're in the middle of a court case because he is fighting for visitation. I know this won't matter either because it's a "he said, she said" thing. @hailyweatherby27
Haily·
Мама сына-младенца
that's terrible..