So I found out a while ago that's when my son's Biological father was still dating one of his ex's that she would say mean things about my son, after they broke up he told me she called him a "spoiled little brat that gets his way all the time because he doesn't get disciplined enough" my son wasn't even 2 yet when that was said. she also said he was "the devils child" well I just found out last night that my son's "father" also said mean things about him. apparently they would both talk about how he is such an annoying spoiled little brat, and a cry baby, that he was a punk that always got his way and wasn't disciplined enough. I don't know whether to be super pissed off or feel hurt for my child that someone who is supposed to care about him would say those things. Some people really shouldn't be parents.
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My soon to be step daughter said in the car on Sunday "don't worry dad moms like always late to pick me up anyway." I jumped right in and said: if we have nothing nice to say we don't say anything Alex. ESP if it's about mommy or daddy.
I would definitely be pissed. but I would feel sorry for my child. he is only a baby for goodness sake. they shouldn't be talking about him like that at all. This is how I feel, talk shit about me all you want but you will keep your mouth shut when it's comes to my child. I'd let it go for the sake of your child. but if it keeps going on, I'd talk to his "father" about it.
Oh yeah, that's not even the worst thing he or his family has done, not necessarily to my son in general but they are awful people and we're in the middle of a court case because he is fighting for visitation. I know this won't matter either because it's a "he said, she said" thing. @hailyweatherby27
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Yeah, I'm going to let it go especially since it was a while ago that it happened and I'm just now finding out. plus I don't want drama while we're in the middle of our case. I am definitely angry about it because he is only a child, but I also feel bad. He is no longer with that girl, but I just worry that it's still going on and I have no way of finding out if it is still going on because I'm not there. @janessamiraclemommy I definitely agree that if you don't anything nice to say it shouldn't be said, weather it be about the child, or parents or any family. @butterly234 I would have replied sooner but my phone didn't show I had any notifications.