just a question... what's your guys view on spanking. I don't believe a child should be spanked for…
just a question... what's your guys view on spanking. I don't believe a child should be spanked for every little thing. when I was little we got spanked if we really screwed up. one time I was at the after school link program until my parents picked me up.. one day I left to go play in the snow and my dad showed up and didn't know where I was. he freaked out went home I wasn't there and when I went back in the teacher called my dad and he came back to pick me up. he sent me to my room and 30 minutes later came in and wiped my ass with a belt. best believe I never did anything like that again
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
We have. It's a last resort. However taking things away and having him work for it back seems to be what works best for our child
chelsea·
В ожидании первенца
exactly.. I believe there are other ways to do it but if I've done everything and you're still acting up your ass is getting a spanking. @karnamarie
sara·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
it depends on the severity of the situation. I'm not against spanking but I don't spank my kids for every Lil thing either so my kids know when they get it they've really done something wrong.
None·
My parents always talked to us first and then spanked us. They explained why they spanked us, how it hurt them to do it, and why we were better than our actions. I think I was spanked maybe 3 times. The spanking wasn't what stuck out to me. What always stuck out was how much my parents loved me, and how it showed in how the disciplined me. I could tell that it hurt them more than me and because it was never done in anger, I knew it was necessary. That made me not wanna disappoint them.
Chanel·
В ожидании первенца
True... But I just believe a child should never get a spanking... But everyone parents different
Tiffany·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
I use it more of a threat then to actually to use it right away. I'm more of a redirect person. I wasn't really spanked as a child, my mom threatened us mostly with taking things away and she would. Follow through with your punishment though because of you don't your children learn that it's never going to happen. My In laws never followed through with their children and as adults they walk all over them now.
missing366user·
i always talk to my son first. i try other options before spanking. now sometimes i do have to because he gets out of hand but it will be on the butt or a tap on the hand nothing to crazy. i used to get hit as a kid though lol.