kinda bummed 😧
After I asked about my bachlorett party (I posted about how nobody was gonna throw me one, so my fiances friend wanted too but she didn't want to step on anyone's toes so she asked me to double check that there wasn't one. There wasn't, but my asking made my mom and sister feel guilty so they tried to slap something together out of guilt)
😐😐😐😐
Well I told my fiances friend not to because my sister was gonna. Well she did it really last minute and nobody can go! None of my friends. None of my wedding party. Not my mother in law. She gave everyone less than a week notice.
It's gonna be my sister mom and i.
I don't really get along with them.
😣
I'm trying to be grateful but it's hard. They're only doing this because they felt guilty. So they slapped something together so they could feel better about themselves.
I just really don't want to go. I feel terrible about it but it's not gonna be fun for me, and I don't feel like I should have to go just to make them feel better
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Sounds like the whole situation is pretty screwed up. You should just tell them you don't want to go. It will kinda be a slap in the face bit if you're not even going to try having a good time then what's the point. Have them cancel all the plans before they waste any money trying to do something nice for you.
...that is coming off a bit less than nice. I don't want to misinterpret you and unnecessarily argue, but I need to say this.
It is not wrong of me to not want to go. my mom and sister are not good people, I love them but they are not. My mom was abusive to me and my sister can't stop stealing from me. I'm very uncomfortable with them. If they genuinely just wanted to do something nice I would be ok. but they don't do that. plus they've both complained to me that if they didn't feel guilty they wouldn't do it.
It's not a complaint about the party, it's a complaint of how severely uncomfortable I am around my mother and it being just us makes me so nervous I feel nauseous. it's hard to feel like you're having a good time with your guard up. @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom