I've been having it really hard lately. My boyfriend and I may a decision together for me to stop working 3 months ago due to having complications with pains and issues with my job. The past months I've gotten upset because I feel guilty because I haven't been contributing anything towards the bills and he's been working so hard. He's told me before not to worry about it just to make sure his baby is growing and safe for delivery when the time comes. The past two weeks I've been in a lot of pain and every time he asks me if I need anything I've said no because I really haven't wanted anything. When he comes home from work he showers and leaves to run around and do stuff so I don't really talk to him that much anymore.. The past 2 days he's been saying I don't appreciate him and that I've been being mean and a bitch to him and that if I got a job he wouldn't have to work as hard or as much and he'd be home more, that ended up us in a huge fight. I thought everything was fine that we had no problem at all.. I haven't been able to stop crying all day, my feelings are hurt I thought we both agreed for me to stop working and not to worry about it or stress.. I feel
Worthless I literally can't stop crying he's been in and out of our room laid down and put his hand on my thigh and hasn't talked about the fight at all.. I don't know what to do or say or just let it be... I'm just really hurt by his words and don't know if it's just my hormones that won't let me stop crying or If I really have a reason to be this upset .. Any help or advise would be greatly appreciated
let it be .. I'm sure he is just stressed n overwhelmed maybe he just had a bad day and unfortunately you were the one who was there at the moment so you got the bad end of it .. having a baby and knowing you are gonna be responsible for another life is just as stressful on a man
so sorry you are going thru this...but men take stress way differently then us. men can let stuff go a whole lot easier then us to. i wouldn't let it stress u to much. it may just be his way of venting from working alot..
just let it go. he as well is overwhelmed with working so much and is taking it out on you. yes he shouldn't do that but he will learn he can't because it hurts your feelings. If you bring it up he might just get mad again about it and it's not worth hearing the words he truely doesn't mean to say.
Thanks everyone !!