it's official, we cannot work things out. I pray that when it comes to our son everything will be OK and drama free.

well when he puts his hands on me while I'm pregnant with his child thats it for me. I've tried and tried and that's all that I get, there's no way I would put my children in that danger

If you decide to give it one more shot, look up the love and respect books. I went to a conference with my mom ( hubby was at military police training and my dad had to work), and it was incredible. I learned a lot.