ladies I need your help. I plan to get a divorce from my husband. I am worried about custody though. we have one baby together who is 3 weeks old and I breastfeed. my husband does not have a job, car, or a place of his own. he either stays with his siter, cousin, or friends.... my husband is irresponsible. he had a good job with the union and lost it because he wasn't doing what he was supposed to. he rolled his parents suburban which they let him use to see me and the baby in the hospital but instead he was with his friends. when he rolled it that's when he got kicked out. will the judge give him visitation without me there? I'm worried because the baby is so young and I breastfeed. I don't want the baby alone without me. he doesn't even know his dad. and hasn't been away from me since he was born. I want a divorce but am scared of having to leave my child alone with his father even if it is for an hour
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thank you all so much :) @reaganmommy2015 @aydensmommy2016 @morse2016 I need this divorce to move on and show him I'm not playing around. he has just used me over and over and I'm tired of it. I'm trying to better my life
Usually the give primary custody to the mother. He will need to prove himself to be a better parent then you to get custody of the baby but it sounds like that won't be happening. I would keep track of everything he did just to be on the safe side
Yay I'm pretty sure that with his tract record no judge would give him any kind of visitaion until his life is in order...and with how it sounds it will be a while.
@puffball, they will not allow him to visit with out adult supervision you could even request in through the courts so you know he will be safe
thank you that makes me feel better! @aydensmommy2016 even his own mom is saying she wouldn't trust him alone with the baby
Usually they won't allow him visitations with out a mother or socal worker with the child...I'm only guessing but since he is so young and breastfeeding they might not even let him until he gets his life in order first to prove he can handle it...like first get a place to live and a stable job otherwise I'm sure you wouldn't have a problem with it or him
yeah. I finally realized that I need to move on and to stop thinking he will change. I'm 19 and he is 23 and I'm more mature than he is. I worked all the way up till my date and I will now go back to school and take online classes. and he is doing nothing @annasaurlove
yeah. I finally realized that I need to move on and to stop thinking he will change. I'm 19 and he is 23 and I'm more mature than he is. I worked all the way up till my date and I will now go back to school and take online classes. and he is doing nothing
I am not close to your situation. I am an 18 year old girl who is now pregnant by an abusive guy I had to leave two weeks ago with family because I scared for my life. but in one way we are the same I was scared that my son going to grow up with out a dad. sometimes it's better do to because our kids will be more Happy when it comes to it I don't if you and your husband are you alive or not but if you do just keep that in mind if you stay with him your child will see that and it will make child really upset
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Before i got pregnant with my husband' baby he told me that he wasnt ready for a baby, said it will ruin his life, said that it seems that im killing him by having his baby. Now I fear he might harm me and my pregnancy
My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?
@puffball, you have to do what needs to be done even though it could be hard and hurtful but your doing exactly what's right for you and your Son stay strong prayers things go in your favor 🙏🏻