So my baby daddy wasn't there through the whole beginning of my pregnacy .. Came back when I was about 5 months and stayed active for a month .. Now we are not talking again and he picked my sons middle name .. I really didn't like it so I wanted to change it .. Does anyone think that's wrong ... ( ps , he has wished death on my son , and he has checked how the baby is doing or anything ... Hasn't asked about a appointment or anything
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@ynm1990, yes ma'am it's set I'm changing it !!
@boymama, thank you so much I really needed that ! It just sucks I wanted my baby boy to have a father but I realize it's not even worth it ..
Sounds like a no brainer I'd change it
@summerrye, I had to learn the hard way (10 years ago with my first) that you can try and force a boy to be a daddy but in the end it really just hurts the baby. If he has no "want to" to be a real father, which means being consistent for his baby, it will just confuse and hurt your child when he pops in and out. You and baby deserve a man not a boy. Don't you let yourself feel bad; you shouldn't have to try and include him on anything he should willingly be there.
@boymama, thank you i just feel bad .. I've tried to include him in every way but he's to busy being a man whore .
I wouldn't give a second thought to changing the middle name. He doesn't deserve to make decisions in your child's life if he doesn't want to be part of it. @summerrye
@summerrye, good for you! No need to dwell