I see so many woman posting about how connected they feel to their baby already and how amazing it is to have them…

I felt the same till the doctor told me they want to take her from me when she's born :/

I felt the exact same way I didn't feel any connection until I felt and saw her move and that was pretty deep into the pregnancy I think it's normal

Yes I felt the same as you...it truly hit me once I gave birth to my son and heard his cry!

I feel the same way and I'm 37 weeks ... I just want to see little man when he gets here but don't really feel connected, could be because it's my first though... who knows!

Yes! That's exactly it. People look at me like I'm a horrible person when I tell them I feel nothing. But until he is in my arms it's not real to me

@marinarose, it could be! But I think we feel this way because we don't see them. I feel like I need to physically see her to know that it's real

@amor1028, thank you (: I really appreciate you telling me how you felt too! Makes me feel so much better

Me 🙋🏼 I feel no connection to my son and I'm due and 2.5 weeks. I know I'll feel differently once he's here. Maybe we just feel this way so if something were to happen it would be easier to cope with. Idk that's just my opinion on it 🤔

I couldn't either. My mom would talk to him all the time so when I had him she would move to try to locate her voice 😍

You will & you will love it so much!

yes @kimberlysbaby at first ii was so scared that ii had no connection with my baby girl and that maybe ii was a bad mother for that but once ii had her in my arms and heard her cry ii immediately fell in love and now with my second its a Lil different but ii kno once he is here ii will love him the same so don't worry girl give it time u will be fine all pray for u too feel the way a mommy should feel cuz its a great feeling

@luuuuuucyyy, lol it's so surreal! Like I can't believe that they're in there and know what we do and hear us and stuff. I just can't wait to have that feeling

@bodaciousb6, thanks a lot (: that really makes me feel better

@kat616, definitely! I can't wait for the day she's actually hear then I'll feel what everyone else already feels

@amor1028, that makes me feel a lot better. I'm so scared that since I don't feel it now I wouldn't when she's finally here. But I'm glad to hear that it all changed once you saw your baby

I was the same. My aunt would tell me talk to him and tell him what you guys are about to do & I would. Crazy I would shower everyday around 7 or 8 at night and now that's when he gets fussy because it's bath time lol

It's weird but it begins the bond you'll have once they are in your arms(:

Girl I still didn't believe I had a little one inside me when I was about to get cut open lol

@kimberlysbaby I'm having a rough time too.. so much pain from such a little thing. but it will happen. it's hard for some people just need to see their baby and their is nothing wrong with that. (:

I am definitely the same way as you! I like feeling the baby move and all, but I don't think I'm gonna feel that love and connection until I'm holding her.

I felt the same way with my first but the day she came into this world was the day ii felt like ii never have felt in my life she filled my heart with this love ii can only explain by showing her in holding her kissing her and just seeing her made me fall in love with her more nd more each day and now she is two years old and ii can't be more in love with her than ii already am so don't worry u will know when tht time will come just as ii did ..

@luuuuuucyyy, yeah I'll try and talk to her and stuff but I feel like it's not doing anything lol I feel like I'm still in denial or something lol

Thank you! I feel like that's the only way for me to finally feel that connection. To actually see her and have her in my arms. It's just that everyone's so happy and I'm always miserable. I've had such a rough pregnancy that I feel that that's what's stoping me from getting attached. @bodaciousb6

I was like that. I would talk to him but I feel like it wasn't there & then when I first saw him it changed completely. I'm so attached to him, I always was but never showed it. 😍

just wait. your time will come. even if it's after the baby is born. @kimberlysbaby don't beat yourself up