Totally regret this stage in life. Don't feel as if I'm truly ready to be a mom or to be with my…

I wasn't excited for my first son either, I looked into adoption and even picked out a couple to adopt him. It wasn't until I was around 7/8 months that I decided to keep him but I still didn't feel a strong bond with him until he was born. Even then it was like torture the first two or three weeks. I did it alone, got very little sleep, was depressed and anxious but I pulled through. I made a lot of changes in my life because of him and wouldn't be as successful as I am today without him being the kick in the ass I really needed in life. Yes it's gonna be hard, and requires a lot of self sacrifice and patience but you can do it. The love you will feel for the baby outweighs the bad days.

do not need your opinion if your ganna just dog on me dude. maybe I got pregnant not even a week after my Mom freaking died so you can back off @babydiehl2016

I have no family here for me at all and I just feel stuck in life. still behind on bills and all this and jot to mention the only person I have is the babies dad and I just feel like its the wrong time in life @indigenousmommy

@littlemancomingsoon516, Ive felt the same in the beginning of my pregnancy, it was definitely the wrong timing, my husband and I were going to officially spilt up due to another mishaps, but then I stopped and looked at it as a reason, there's a reason why after being told at 17 I couldn't have kids and here I am, damn near divorced and finding out I'm 10 weeks pregnant. Maybe there's a reason you got pregnant after the pass of your mom (btw sorry to hear that). As for being the end of your youth & you can't have fun, I think you'll find your balance in that area.

When I found out I was pregnant with my daughter I was 17 and about to dump my fiancé because him and I just couldn't get along anymore. Wasn't until she was 6 months that I found out that the reason we couldn't get along is because he was using coke. Anyways after being 1 month and 1/2 along I told my biological mother I was pregnant and 3 hours later I was kicked out of my home, forced to move in with the fiance I was going to dump and his parents who both were pastors and believed we couldn't live together in sin and birth a child into wetlock. So for me to have a home while I was pregnant i had to get married because I couldn't work. I had HG with my daughter like I do with my pregnancy now. It was the hardest point in my life. Now 7 years later after being divorced from my husband for 3 1/2 years and then remarried (I know insane) we are now pregnant with our 2nd child that was planned and happily married. I can only wish that your happiness happens a lot sooner than mine but I will say even though I questioned my pregnancy with my daughter the whole time. I was so young and just got kicked out of my home which was also my schooling ugh but the moment I had her was the moment I put everyone including myself behind her and her needs. I don't regret a thing.

If you truly believe that this is not going to work in your life right now I'd consider looking into adoption. It's not too late. Nobody can judge you if you choose what you think will be right for you and the baby. Let me know if you ever want to talk via message. No judgment from me at all.