OH LORD LADIES MY COUSIN IN LAW JUST CALLED ME ASKING WHEN THE BEST TIME TO BUY HIS GIRLFRIEND A PREGNANCY TEST (HE AND HIS GF ARE 13) HE SAID THEY HAD SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME SUNDAY AND WHEN HE PULLED OUT THE CONDOM WAS BROKEN. SO I HAD TO TELL HIM THAT THEY HAVE TO WAIT TILL HER NEXT MISSED PERIOD THEN TEST. I THEN PROCEED TO TELL HIM IF SHE IS PREGNANT BECAUSE SHES A MINOR HER PARENTS HOLD THE desicion FOR HER TP GET AN ABORTION OR NOT AND IF SHE IS PREGNANT THAT HE JUST SIGNED 18 YEAR contract WITH THIS LITTLE GIRL THAT HES NOT EVEN SURE HES GONNA BE WITH A YEAR FROM NOW. AND THAT OF SHE IS PREGNANT HE HAS NO WAY OF DRIVING BABY AROUND NO WAY TO SUPPORT THE BABY .... HIS RESPONSE WAS (OH SHIT I DIDNT THINK ABOUT THAT) I THEN TOLD HIM TO NOT ASK ME TO BUY THE PREGNANCY TEST OR CONDOMS CAUSE I DO NOT AGREE WITH HIM HAVING SEX SO YOUNG.... LADIES WHEN I WAS THAT AGE I WAS WORRIED ABOUT WHO COOLER THAN ME LOL THESE KIDS ARNT EVEN IN HIGH-SCHOOL YET I DIDNT START HAVING SEX TILL I WAS 15 BACK IN 08 ..... AND IF YOIR A YOUNG MOM WHO READS THIS OR TEEN MOM THIS IS NOT MEANT TO OFFEND YOU CAUSE YALL ARE DOING WHAT YALL CAN TO SUPPORT AND LOVE YOUR CHILD.... THESE TWO KIDS IM TALKING ABOUT ARE A DIFFERENT STORY
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15 is a little young too. hopefully this scares them and makes them realize . I was 18 when I lost my virginity and still should've waited.
yeah ladies k just don't understand if your a child why rush to be an adult being an adult sucks
Yeah I was 17 when I lost mine and I did get pregnant with the guy a year later but I had a full time job and my own apartment etc.
"oh shit I didn't think about that"??? wow! I pray they didn't create life!!
Omg my friend was having sex then im like wow I just had boyfriends I kissed lol . Didn't lose my virginity til I was like 16.
Yeah definitely can't force her to get abortion. the parents could go to jail for that. but that's crazy if they are going to have sex she needs birth control and he needs better condoms lol
Actually the parents can't make her get an abortion. During the pregnancy she would be considered an adult and makes all the decisions. My sister got pregnant at 14 and was considered an adult for her pregnancy but she miscarried early on. But I do agree with you! I lost my virginity at 18 when I was in college because I didn't want to go down the same path as my mom did being a teen mom
I lost my vCard at 14 one time i was with the wrong crowd.. I never thought I was pregnant.. (I wasnt) but I was too scared to do it again... and I was 17 when I had sex a second time.. and I got pregnant with my SO of 2 years at 19.. but I don't encourage 14 yr Olds by any means and I did have a job and basically taking care of myself at 17... I do agree if you're going to make adult desicions you can handle adult consequences!!
even at 19, I wish I would have protected myself better and not have lost it until I met the right person. at 13, where is her childhood?? where are her influences? where are his? it's heartbreaking
yeah like I said I lost mine ypung @15 but I was with the guy I lost it to for five years then met my husband and married him so it really is sad and the worst part is his girlfriend looks like she's 17 buts she's only 13 @showersoverflowers @lashellg @showersoverflowers @amberlynn95 @lilanne1927 @junesmommy15 @kasieerin
Jesus. I'm with you. They are way to young. I didn't have sex till I was about 19 and in college. I was always scared of being a young mom and not being able to support my baby. Kids these days don't think about the consequences of having sex. If you aren't ready for a baby and can't support your decision then you shouldn't have sex period. I'll beat my sons ass if he's going to get some little girl pregnant. I won't be there to help him. You want to make an adult decision to have sex then you better man up and find a way to support that baby
but I don't think parents can decide to have their child have an abortion. In some places, the child would have to have the consent of at least one parent to have one though. It's a sad that these laws even have to be made. 😣😣 I didn't even lose my vcard until I was 19
Oh wow. I completely agree and understand where your coming from. I didn't have sex tell my 17 birthday 12 grade. That's crazy! I was more worried about getting to play role in The Mock crash at school
Sad. I didn't know parents hold the decision for abortion. Wow. These kids don't think.
I know 15 was young but my bf at the time always used protection had a car had a job and was graduating highschool and I was on birth control and never once had a scare do I wish I was older now yes but I wouldn't change my past... @jonasmomma16