so, tomorrow my daughter will be 4 months and she's been sleeping in our room since birth, she's outgrown her bassinet she sleeps in, and now her rocker. for the cosleeping mommies, how did you cope with putting your baby in their crib?? if we didn't have one of those cribs with the changer attached that turns into a toddler bed then a day bed and full bed, I'd have her crib in our room
. I'm just really nervous about sleeping in separate rooms...
please, advice is needed. :(
I just tried and he's not listening to me.. I tell him I'm not ready and he says "its not about me" @miicat
@countyourblessings05 Yes so you see, you deserve to stand up to what your gut tells you is best. Don't abandon your instinct just because it causes some disturbances. Ignoring your instincts is also not helpful for your baby and you know that standing up to your views is an important role modeling to your child as well. Do talk it out, I'm very glad you're reconsidering :) Stay strong ❤
exactly! I tell him that all the time, but he wants her to learn independence now...
I would rather have her with me, 24/7 and have her know that I'm with her no matter what.. that's why I don't let her cry it out (no more than a couple minutes at least) lol. yeah, I think we should talk this out.. I'm just not ready for sleeping separately yet...
@countyourblessings05 It's the worry that she'll be clingy that'll more likely make her clingy than the long periods of co-sleeping ever will. Trust me there's no way a human will not get sick of their parents being with them all the time at one point or another. 😉 The whole point of it is to give them your all when they can benefit from it so that they understand that you're there for them and have a close bond together and let them figure out their want for independence in due time. Things like these are worthy of talking through, you know !
I know but my fiance refuses to do that because he doesn't want her to be clingly. me, I could care less lol I love her being clingly @miicat
I will still co-sleep til baby is 3 years or more. It's good to give them plenty of together time, they won't always want to sleep next to you for the rest of their lives 😜
I was up all night the first few nights constantly checking on him,but he did great. It gets better. Just try to get as much sleep as possible
I need a bigger house we have 5 adults and 1 child in our house and it's a 2 bedroom trailer. Karen has her room then me and hubby have our room then our 2 roommate sleep in the living room 😭 too many people in our house!
I'm not at all comfortable with the thought of having my baby sleep in a crib so therefore she will sleep with me & her dad . Eventually I will have to get her to sleep in her own bed but until then she is to sleep in my bed & idc what anyone has to say about it
okay I need help. the crib will be in her room. the pack n play will be in our room. she has a swing but what can she sleep in? I am scared to let her sleep in the bed with us cause my bf isn't the lightest sleeper.
We have 2 fans going in the bed room, & my poor baby is drenched in sweat 😥😥 What else can I do to cool her off while she's sleep. Our ac doesn't work
Baby sleeping in their room?
How many of yalls babies are sleeping in their own room already? This is my baby's 3rd night alone in her room. She does GREAT! Sleeps better and longer in her crib. I wasn't planning on letting her sleep alone yet but my husband put her to sleep one night and put her in her room. We were both thinking she'll wake up soon and then I'll just put her in the bassinet in our room. Well, she never woke up until 7:30am ?. I was shocked! She would usually wake up twice at...
@countyourblessings05, Well dear, that's a bummer I'm sorry. Don't give up though. I suggest just doing a lot of research about the topic so you can give proper constructive reasons for him. He has the right to his views but so do you. And mommas have strong strong intuition for their babies wellbeing.