so my husband's grandmother told me that my mother in law planned on staying with me and my husband for two weeks after the baby is here but she didn't discuss that with me at all. i call her to clear it up and she said that she never said that and i just said ok and got off the phone. tell me why a week later she's calling my husband saying that i hurt her feelings and making slick remarks. example: "I wouldn't mind getting a car seat for my car but idk if she'll even let me see the baby at all so I better not.." etc. but the whole week she's been liking my status on Facebook and commenting how pretty i am and how happy she is to be my mother in law. i asked her about it and she's acting crazy. lord give me patience cause if you give me strength i might smack somebody 🙏🏾
I understand that one my mother in law took the extra baby bath chair extra carseat and high chair so she has it at her house cause she thinks my new born son will be coming over to stay the night with her
yea I understand the exaggerating comments lol. my mother in law used to drive me crazy, I polished my baby's nails and she called my husband and was like omg why and I got upset but it was honestly just because we didn't know each other well enough and I automatically saw the things she did as her trying to control or get to me and vice versa but after we got to really get to know each other we both saw that the other wasn't what we thought and now we have an amazing relationship, I'm closer to her than my own mom now and talk to her more than my husband does. You guys should spend some one on one time before and after the baby and just get to know each other better. It is a great thing to be able to have a great relationship with your mother in law
my issue is that she didn't discuss it with me or my husband, she just told people that she was doing it like she's in control of our lives. she does that all the time. also, she over exaggerates everything like how she made it seem like i was going to keep the baby away from her. she thinks that i'm supposed to worship the ground she walks on because she gave birth to my husband and acts crazy if I stand up for myself at all @quea
@mw1620, lol same here. she's going to be so disappointed