I would go regardless, everyone has to make their own decisions for their own personal reasons and it's not my job to judge, as a friend I'm here to support.

Tell her there's other option such as adoption there's others who can't have kids they would love to have children

No, I couldn't go.

She said that she really don't wants to do it but if she don't she is going to loose her family and she has 3 more kids I don't know I won't do it through any situation but in a way I just don't wants to live her alone in a sad situation

I could not do it. I think it should be something made illegal .. that is not a way out. there are plently of other options but I wouldn't be able to go and support her.

i dont believe in it but if my friend asked me, i would go. she needs support at a time like this and i would go to support her.

So sad 18wks thats just so sad breaks my heart how they just don't understand what they're doing...

Dont go if you do that is supporting g

her decision she will regret it one day and hopefully she might back out at the last minute God willing..and if your there she might go thru w it...Pray for her ...

all u can do is pray for her it's ur call if u can't handle going u just have to tell her bc some places u have to have an ultrasound b4 they do whatever u want to call it

I couldn't. My mom had 4 miscarriages and I had issues with pcos and am lucky to have my two blessings. If she knows my opinion and feelings I wouldn't even be asked. I am sorry but after 18 days that baby has a heartbeat and is to me a baby and a living human though they can't be out of the womb until 24 weeks t I have me that is just something I couldn't live with myself being a part of. I saw a video recently of a mom who delivered her baby at 18 weeks it's heart was beating and he was breathing although not able to be save yet he was very much alive. I would be her friend from afar.

well I wasn't saying it to her I meant in general because others were saying no so strongly but I hope she can be there for her friend that is a hard pill to swallow I been there .. @amaperalta03

I would. she needs ur support..... she turn to u and that's big. it's hard for people to do this but she ask u, hoping she can count on u.....

@lovemiithree, I don't think she was judging I just think she was letting her friend know her actual opinion on the situation. But I do agree she should support her

I wouldn't 😞

I would support her. Although you think it's wrong she's still your friend at the end of the day. You did try to convince her to not do it maybe she will back out last minute. I think you should continue to let her know your opinion but at the same time be a supportive friend

I don't think that you should judge the next person on what they think is best for them in their life.. sometimes people do things we wouldn't do or we don't agree with but u should still be a friend

@amaperalta03, yeah that's the point I already told her what I think about it when she ask for my opinion but In another way is a personal decision I try to convince her not to do it many times but her case is complicated even though she put her self on the situation

nope. I would definitely pray for her but I couldn't be partner to that

I personally wouLd go. Although I don't agree with abortions for myself. I will support a friend of that's their decision. It must be a hard thing to do and I wouldn't want her going thru that alone

Fuck no