My biggest regret is getting a place together with my mil. She's great but living with in laws is a…
My biggest regret is getting a place together with my mil. She's great but living with in laws is a whole different thing and not the best thing for a FTM. always tries to "help" and give her opinions of what to do when she's feeling like this or another way.. SO doesn't see it, sees it as she's just trying to help well I gotta do what I gotta do for my daughter for by myself or my SO and I for our daughter. It's not her daughter and she can be a little over bearing. My mom sees it and is starting to dislike her because of that and even my MIL own niece notices that she's too hands on. Idk how much longer I will be able to live here, sacrificed my happiness so my daughter can have her dad and I together with her but I regret this decision so bad. I just want to go back with my mom.
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
Maybe you can have a heart to heart with your mother in law. Tell her how you feel. Tell her how you appreciate her so much but would like to parent your child on your own. This goes on with my mother in law so I speak up but am respectful at the same time. I tell her how she sometimes doesn't allow me to parent and although I appreciate that she loves my daughter so much she needs to let me learn for myself.
Jackie Moreno·
Мама дочки-младенца
@amaperalta03, I want to but she's so resentful and gets her feelings hurt easily. My SO was suppose to talk to her when I was having a breakdown about it and he said he would talk to her but of course like I suspected he didn't. I've politely shot down some of her opinions which I feel like she has backed off but maybe by like 5% lol.