Go to grocery store for last time before baby, husband has impressed me by planning meals and…
Go to grocery store for last time before baby, husband has impressed me by planning meals and organizing a list. Get all needed groceries and get right through line no problem. Realize I can not find my card, husband runs out to car thanking I left it there. Calls and tells me he can't find it. (I only carry 1 Discover credit card because I tend to lose wallets.) Humiliated by store employees as if I actually don't have any money. Husband does not come back in store. Humiliated, waddling and 9 months pregnant I leave store and promptly burst into tears. Husband pulls car up and I get in the car sobbing. He proceeds to scream at me to stop crying. Which obviously makes me cry harder and starts giving me contractions so he decides to switch gears and threatend to take me to the hospital if I don't stop crying - because why would I be crying? I finally scream back "because I'm fucking embarrassed and pregnant, you moron." and he says "I'm so done with you." Now my contractions feel like the real thing and I throw up a little bit. He does not try to help. He lets me drag myself in the house, and THEN when I'm calming down he asks if I'm ok and when I don't respond, storms out of the house.
And this is my daddy doula whose been taking labor coach classes. I want my $500 back.
missing201user·
no offensive but he sounds like a jackass. I can't handle men with tempers
jana.bear·
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@jadestarlight, he's very overly sensitive and has a hard time prioritizing his emotions. And yes, he can be a jackass. He's not a bad man, he just panics and gets angry when he doesn't know what to do.
Keneesha·
Sorry. Are you still having contraction? If so are you counting them? Stress can cause labor contractions.
jana.bear·
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@ilovemykids24, once I calmed down the contractions stopped. this has happened a few times where I got upset and started having them.
Keneesha·
Okay 👌 Just making sure. I hope your day gets better. Did you find your card?
missing201user·
I understand that I just don't handle people with short fuses well
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
😟 hope you feel better hon.
roshon·
@jana.bear, no need to feel embarrassed we have all lost or forgotten our money cards wallets it's normal i once went into a store put my groceries to be rung up only to find i didn't have enough i had to put more than half of my food back!! your husband should have been more considerate as far as your crying is concerned i think he overreacted a bit...i hope you start to feel better soon!
jana.bear·
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@ria03, @mommagotbump16 @ilovemykids24 @jadestarlight. thanks guys. I did find my card I left it on the couch. I normally wouldn't cry like an idiot over something so silly but yah know, hormones. Husband did come begging for forgiveness with a carmello bar, a Starbucks tea lemonade and a foot rub.
roshon·
@jana.bear, aww lol that's sweet of him!! lemonade actually sounds pretty good right now