I am honestly in complete shock rn . Me & my bf really just broke up . & the sad part is I'm the one who did the breaking up . I've never seen him so upset . What did I do ? Like I can't even cry . I have no emotion . To know that I just broke up with my boyfriend who I supposedly loved so much . Maybe I didn't love him . Or maybe I couldn't love him the way he needed to be loved. idk all I know is I got tired of being a pain in his ass . I think it's for the best ... He'll find someone who appreciates him one day I just know I'm not that girl . I'm not the one for him . 💔
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one more thing sometimes we tend to push away the ones as we love I used to do it alot
@rockysmommy, that's how I was with my son this time I feel my daughter has brought an evil birch out of me...my son I was really emotional and clingy
sometimes it's us who gots to give the apology especially if we make them think the exact opposite from what we feel I believe in you I think you'll talk to him especially if y'all love each other don't give up so easily give yourself more credit then that momma
then it might take u to go to him @xoxoalexusss because if he thinks that it's apparent he didn't want it to be over if he was holding u like that
@mariposa95, haha omg exactly lol but I'm the lazy one I don't know this whole pregnancy has made me not want to clean my house just sleep.
Idk maybe we just need a break . & if he comes to me with other plans then we can discuss it . But I doubt it. But rn it's just better if we're apart . I know he's not happy . The way he held me so tight & kissed me before walking away . I even think I saw him cry ... & now he thinks I never loved him . & I've been lying to him about my feelings about him our entire relationship. Which is NOT true ! He just gave me this speech about how I don't respect him or appreciate him so I just figured breaking up would be best . & he @mariposa95 could find a woman who could . Like idk ....
lol it's our hormones I believe that make them kinda close them selves up @rockysmommy 😂 probably wanna run and hide when they hear is coming around the corner mad about doing so much and they ain't doing nothing to get up off their ass lol it's kinda funny if u think about it feeling like I sounds like my mom
@mariposa95, I completely agree with you on that whole comment and our worst fights are also during pregnancy we have never fought like this before
@rockysmommy, @xoxoalexusss our worse fights have been while I'm pregnant
I know how that is trust me but you can't think like that I was the same took this pregnancy to wake up and stop and think I was feeling not so special like I used to because I didn't always feel that spark but idk I love him and I know every relationship is gunna have it's ups and downs....but nothing is better than having a MAN who loves u and accepts u even being moody as hell I don't think I'd ever find that again tbh my SO is so supportive especially when I need it and he changed for me....how many guys will put love over their ego? he's the first I've ever know and a great dad but I believe pregnancy is just had for not just u but him he worries are yours will y'all be Gud parents will he be able to stand on his feet when ur having ur kid will u be Okay and safe and ur kids plus family can be a pressure on both sides on top of all the emotions it's fucking crazy but the best feeling is knowing no Matter what bs y'all Will love each other no Matter what maybe try talking to him let everything out feelings maybe just saying can u help me more pregnancy is hard on our bodies they will never understand that just be consistent and if ur stressed...walk away take a breather listen to some music then go to him and just again calmly be honest it's helped me this pregnancy but I don't just ask him to do for me and not do for him lol I do "special" things for him I've noticed it kinda makes things less tense and easier for the both of us
yes thats wonderful you trust in god! he will provide and he will show you what is meant. pray for clarity. i am hoping the best for you 💟
I have been fighting with my boyfriend a lot since pregnant too @mariposa95 over stupid little things. Our hormones affect men too. If you still love him I hope things work out. @xoxoalexusss I couldn't imagine being away from my boyfriend and we won't be together for a year until August and our little boy is due in June. We definitely aren't the same two people as before but our love never changed. Just more stressed out. Things get better I hope things work out for y'all
@mareesan, I trust in God definitely. He knows what's best for us . 🙏🏽
Yeah . We were together for only 5 months when I got pregnant. Everything kinna moved fast . We didn't get a chance to love each other more . Sometimes it's just what couples gotta do . @ethansmommy21
im dealing with the same issues with my boyfriend we was great before i got pregnant n then the moment i got pregnant things went south we have been arguing this entire pregnancy and im at my wits end with everything i feel like i can do bad all by myself and i dont need no man to make me happy im better off by myself less stress
trust me, I know how that feels. It's hard to leave someone you love. I keep hoping things will get better. Idk what it is but it's like theres no connection besides our son. I love him to death and it'll be 3 years together in October 4 of knowing each other but idk, I just feel like halfway through my pregnancy I started feeling like we weren't meant to be together forever. We've definitely drifted apart even more since the baby got here.
maybe it is your hormones too making you think otherwise that things arent the same. because really they arent, your pregnant there is certain things you cant do now. and there is another person involved in the relationships, you get more comfortable and things change. you cant hold on to what was in the beginning because that's exactly what it is the beginning. have to create new memories each day, and if you really feel like yall can make it work then i say dont give up!
damn almost a year and you had gotten pregnant that's tough but things happen for a reason i hope you feel better, your life will fall into place..(me and my x hus been together for 3 years)
you still havent fully got to love one another and fill eachother out and take things slow. but yalls baby boy is something that yall will always share a bond with even if the love for one another is something yall cant share. its all gods plan. who knows yall could be better off as friends. 💖
maybe that is why. a year isnt very long at all! but atleast yall do love and have something in common and thats your baby😊
@mareesan, almost a year . I don't think we are meant to be . We just can't be.
@mariposa95, he's a wonderful man . & I'm deeply in love with him . But I'm still holding on to memories of when everything was going perf in the beginning. We're not those two people anymore .
I feel like our relationship has been hanging by a thread ever since I got pregnant. I've been holding on for as long as I could . I just can't anymore . @scc2413
how long have you been with him? maybe because you havent been with him long and you just realize yall arent meant to be.
u can't think like that momma u will always except the love u think you deserve and if he's a good guy and seems to be like he's gunna be a Gud daddy AND. he respects u u deserve that but if u love him and being pregnant is kinda rough on our relationships because our hormones are crazy I've never argued so horrible with my SO until I got pregnant but....I love him and I don't believe I'll ever fi.d someone like him not many guys will live to try their best to make u happy plus he has autism and it's already hard for hi. to show emotion if u love him and he's a man that treats u with love and respect I hope y'all can work it out
i broke up with my husband recently he was so annoying and i just got tired of him..my baby boy is turning 6 months soon, hes still in our sons life but it feels weird honestly..you will get over it trust me if it wasnt ment to be then it wasnt ment to be, take life as it comes..your pregnant your baby need you the most right now, dont be stressed..make sure you pray and have a good pregnancy..god bless
Ive been having the same feelings towards my boyfriend lately. Like I honestly feel like we aren't right for each other anymore. I feel horrible for my son but I don't want all of us being unhappy trying to stay together.
if he's a good guy don't let him go