I really wish I could have seen from an outside perspective the way the people who "love & care" about my son & I acted throughout my delivery & after care.. True colors were really shown on the day of my sons birth & it's just now coming in to focus for me. 👌 My "best friend" sent me a video of me being wheeled from L&D over to the post partum side, thinking it was the funniest thing in the world. After the most important day of my life, the most pain I've ever been in, and the most intense moment of my life, THAT is what she held on to. A very vulnerable video of me.. I didn't even watch it because I probably would have puked. I spilt some breast milk after seeing what it was though! 😑 Who in their right mind would ever think that was okay?!
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I put a few up! There will be tons more in the future, life just for crazyyyyyyy busy!! But thank you!! 😊 @beyoutiful4589
Yeah, it does suck!! I hope things get better for you @chrissytee!! Congratulations I am going to look through your pictures I want to see him!! 😊
@beyoutiful4589, thank you!!! And seriously.. I feel like I'm starting to see people so much differently than I did before. It's kinda sad.. More than just this situation has taken place.. And it just sucks. But yeah. I had my baby last Friday!! 😊😊
Congratulations on your baby!!!! I haven't been on here in a little while didn't know you had your little man. Unfortunately when we have kids we start realizing the true colors of everyone around us. Especially during the life changing moments.
and my husband laughed at me for pooping on the table... told me the OB made a funny face and it came out star-shaped (whatever that means) lol!!!
@kattastrophe, if it were something sent to me as like a precious memory, then yes I would treasure it & be okay with it. However it was the way she acted and she didn't show me that day. It was sent to me today, a week later, as a joke. She literally sent it to me saying "you're gonna hate me for this" so yeah. I'm pretty offended. It just really hurt me.
I think different people feel differently about it.... I personally wouldn't be offended, only because my vulnerable after birth photos are a beautiful symbol of what I went through. my proudest moment, and I looked the worst and beautiful at the same time lol
I'm lost! what was so bad about her sending that video?
Yikes I can see why you'd find that insensitive then!
She probably didn't mean any harm by it, if she isn't a mother herself then she has no idea what it is like and that she may have offended you.
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@chrissytee, Oh that's good!! I've taken pictures of my kids everyday if possible!! Time flies and soon they're all grown up!! Good luck and best wishes to you on your path in mother hood!! Yeah, I've been going through a lot of family drama since I've been pregnant this time around. It sucks but it's opened my eyes wider and I've realized what's important. My kids!! My unborn baby so I've removed myself from the negative people who are trying to bring me down and whom I've felt were after hurting me.