I can understand that, it's hard! being nice and empathetic isn't always a good thing. It can make you push your own needs to the back burner and that's not good. especially when the ppl in your life aren't as considerate and don't seem to notice when they're wearing you too thin. I hope you can find a solution to the issue that doesn't cost you too much!

@michellevaldez4750, I try all the time but I Dnt like seeing my family in need

Sometimes being the responsible one sucks! my husband has that problem, he started a business a few years ago and has become pretty successful but now everyone in his family and I mean everyone asks him for help with their money problems! his aunt from Texas had the nerve to call and expect him to send her $ so she could go to Michigan for a different family members graduation and actually got mad when he said no! sometimes you have to just say no and do what's best for you. chances are if it was the other way around you'd have to deal with your issues on your own because they'd be thinking of themselves first! sad but true :-\