So now my husband is upset with me because I want OUR baby to also have my last name...

@ericaann1993, thanks! He just wants his name first lol so it's decided. We will hyphenate!

sounds fair to me 😊 good luck!

@astridoll, okay I understand it not fitting and everything but for me that's not really the issue here. I feel like he's blackmailing me in a way and now I'm not sure about her first name since it was only agreed upon so that she would take his last name.

@ericaann1993, that's what I want

Well my husband has his fathers and his mothers last name because that's how it is in Cuba where he was born . And wishes he only has his first last name because it's easier for everything having only one last name . All paperwork , cards, ids. His is Rodriguez Tapanes and in all his cards and paperwork appears Rodriguez tapan ... It doesn't fit nowhere. I was Lopez Melean and since we got married I'm Rodriguez and that's it . My baby will be just Rodriguez 1 first name 1 last name

since you guys are married maybe you could use both and hyphenate them.

@crystantonette, follow suit meaning..? After my last name?

@themommaoffour, I think that's what I want. He's genuinely upset that I'm changing my mind.

Last name should follow suit and be the father's if he is in her life

if you feel it's better for her to have your last name I say give it to her.

@themommaoffour, yeah I agree. Apparently he only agreed to her first name so that she could have his last name.

it's honestly up to the mother what the baby is named.

Mine has both mine n his last name Ramirez-Rosas I did it to make my dad happy

And he's not really giving me a reason as to why.

@themommaoffour, we're married and I haven't changed my last name. I want her to also have my last name McBride. He just wants Castro.

my daughter has his last name and my son will too when he gets here next month

my oldest 3 have his last name our son will have a hyphenated Jackson-Lunsford I know a lot of people that unless they're married give baby their last name.

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