So now my husband is upset with me because I want OUR baby to also have my last name...

Dad

my oldest 3 have his last name our son will have a hyphenated Jackson-Lunsford I know a lot of people that unless they're married give baby their last name.

my daughter has his last name and my son will too when he gets here next month

@themommaoffour, we're married and I haven't changed my last name. I want her to also have my last name McBride. He just wants Castro.

And he's not really giving me a reason as to why.

Mine has both mine n his last name Ramirez-Rosas I did it to make my dad happy

it's honestly up to the mother what the baby is named.

@themommaoffour, yeah I agree. Apparently he only agreed to her first name so that she could have his last name.

if you feel it's better for her to have your last name I say give it to her.

Last name should follow suit and be the father's if he is in her life

@themommaoffour, I think that's what I want. He's genuinely upset that I'm changing my mind.

@crystantonette, follow suit meaning..? After my last name?

since you guys are married maybe you could use both and hyphenate them.

Well my husband has his fathers and his mothers last name because that's how it is in Cuba where he was born . And wishes he only has his first last name because it's easier for everything having only one last name . All paperwork , cards, ids. His is Rodriguez Tapanes and in all his cards and paperwork appears Rodriguez tapan ... It doesn't fit nowhere. I was Lopez Melean and since we got married I'm Rodriguez and that's it . My baby will be just Rodriguez 1 first name 1 last name

@ericaann1993, that's what I want

@astridoll, okay I understand it not fitting and everything but for me that's not really the issue here. I feel like he's blackmailing me in a way and now I'm not sure about her first name since it was only agreed upon so that she would take his last name.

sounds fair to me 😊 good luck!

@ericaann1993, thanks! He just wants his name first lol so it's decided. We will hyphenate!