My doctor told me 6 weeks too but I couldn't wait. I did it after about 3 weeks and just went real easy.

I waited, I just didn't want to suffer any consequences lmao

exactly three weeks later, I had sex.

Wait until your doctor clears you at your 6 weeks post partum check up. Just came back from mine today. Having sex before then can be harmful to you if you're not fully healed.

I never waited, we had sex around 3 weeks after. I had a small tear but it was fine

Your suppose to wait because your cervix is still open and it could cause infection. That being said I had a vaginal birth and only waited 4 or 5 weeks lol I would say just make sure it doesn't hurt you, don't let him get off inside you and make sure his penis is clean! Lol