seriously what's wrong with a c section? ? if that was the safest for baby then what makes you any…

I don't see anything wrong with any way you birth your child. In all honesty I would have rather had a csection. I know they're rough to recover from because it's a big surgery but I've had multiple surgeries and know it's a pain I'm personally capable of handling and I unfortunately didn't have a great vaginal birth experience. I was in labor for four days, my epidural and pain shots didn't work at all and my water refused to break. The doctor on call also didn't want to interfere with my body naturally dilating because I was only 35 weeks so the pain just drug on and on until I finally got stuck at 5cm on my own then she gave me pitocin and she broke my water at 9cm because I was screaming for hours. It was such a traumatizing experience that I'm not sure I'll ever be able to bring myself to having more children lol

@maciecakes, omg !! my experience was about the same I went in for induction because my baby was a big baby she was 9 lbs 9 oz ... I went in at 3 cm dialated they started the process with pitocin I only stayed at 4 cm for almost about a whole day the next day I went from 4 TO 6 then they broke my water after 38 hours I was at 8 1/2 and then from them checking my cervix so much they got me infected they infected my placenta baby was almost with no fluid for 24 hours swallowed pooped and that's when they decided I was going to have a c section it was horrible and I can say the same no babies for a whileeeee

I've had both a vaginal induction and a c section. I definitely preferred my c section. As long as baby comes out when they need to come out, what does it matter?

@kimberlyyyy, exactly. . it just bugs me like when they say you should have pushed like not everyone's births are the same...especially your body

I wasn't in labor when I had my c section so I couldn't push, so people who say that can go suck on a tit.

Sadly I can't have vaginal so I had my son through c-section & will have to if I want more children in the future. People gave me lots of crap for it but even if I can push my child out that would be my last breath. So I had to suck it up and just look at the bright side being able to have a baby and see them grow up.

sadly everyone is entitled to their own opinions , even when not asked