ok mommy's I have a question I'll be around 13weeks for my next visit my fiance and everyone in my family and his family…

Yea @moonchild I mean it'll be surprise to both you guys still

its going to be hard for all your family to keep it a secret for the rest of your pregnancy but you can tell your hubby he can find out but he has to promise no to tell you at all and he can buy any thing and drop it off at a trust worthy person that wont tell you either think about it hes your partner its his pregnancy too and if u exclude him now he wont be as helpful when you want him to be

if you dont want to find out just tell your ultrasound tech to check print a pic out but dont tell you and give that pic to your family but tell them not to tell you or hit you at all

@moonchild, yes but they always tell you wait until 20 week ultrasound to be sure

I would say wait until 15weeks and go to a 3d 4d and ask them to write in a envelope..if you want to keep it a secret. and if you find out don't buy anything until your Dr. confirms it. it happened to my friend told her it was a girl and at her 23 week scan with her Dr. he told her it's a boy. you could see his penis and little. balls clearly. But at the end of the day it's up to you. best of luck!!!

@leslie527, thank you

I found out at 15 weeks 5 days. usually your told to wait until 20 something weeks. But I went to a 3d 4d and at the gender reveal: it's a girl. But everyone of my in-laws are including my family still believes it's a boy. so we will have to wait and see until my Dr. confirms it.

did u find out by ultrasound @celestea

that's an awesome idea @jaib

I found out at 13w

@moonchild, yea he needs to lighten up . My boyfriend is just like whatever you want to do im down . I think you guys should come to a happy medium . We won't find out at our appointment. We've decided to get the gender places in a envelope have a cake made and have a dinner with our parents and grand parents . Maybe you guys can have a reveal party or something it'll still be a surprise but wait closer to the birth

he's not much of a thinker but ur right it is my pregnancy @jaib

@moonchild, Lawwwd 👀 a little aggressive huh ? Umm they have gender friendly clothes . It's not that hard . Tell him think outside the box .

@jaib,

I just asked my S.O n he got mad n said so how the fuck am I going to buy the baby clothes then

They have a early elective test you can take . But it's not a for sure thing . If you don't want to know , don't find out . It's your pregnancy your decision