Birth Plan Rant

I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?

I lost my baby boy 4 days ago... I'm really hurt and trying to find some light just because he wasn't full term I am getting people saying a lot of hurtful things and I'm feeling super low.. Any ideas of how to handle my self?

I'm 32 weeks Pregnant And Every time I Get Up Or Lay Down Its Pain And Cramping I Can't Lift My Leg When I Walk It Crams When I Try To Switch From Side To Side Y Laying Down It Hurts Then I Feel Little Cramps In My Back From Time To Time Can Someone Help Me Please!!!!

this maybe TMI but does it hurt any one else when you try to have sex with your husband or bf? I tired with mine and it hurt so bad I almost cried.

I'm still trying to get a feel for this app but are there any STAHM here?