Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
can anyone tell me how labor pains feel I heard differently from the women in my family my aunt said it feel like your body tearing apart my cuzzin said it feel like you have to take a booboo real bad and you can't
I know I cannot be the only one who isn’t treating Easter like Christmas 😑 like whhhhhy? Idk it might just be me 🤷 ♀
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
anessa·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
Say something about the message. You were being honest and it was before you two. Its not like you gave it to him. He is the one messaging a girl you have every right to say something.
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Why did you bring that up to your husband? And wake him up!!! Your husband shouldn't be having out with another girl... Especially one u don't know of
Hannah Clark·
В ожидании первенца
That's very wrong of him to treat you that way. Things happen, and as others have said, it's not as if you gave it to him. He shouldn't be so judgmental over something that happened before he was your husband. As for the message, you need to bring it up. Say something to him because that is VERY not okay. Whether there is something actually going on or if they're just friends, it doesn't matter because he seems to be doing it behind your back and that's not right.
Britany·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Well idk why I told him I was drunk and just was being honest his response was I'm itchy after everytime we have sex so there was the first slap in the face plus he is so worried about me I can never talk to all my old guy friends! I went down stairs woke him up played the message and he went back to sleep I'm upstairs bawling taking care of our newborn he's downstairs passed out treating me like a disease and he's most likely been cheating on me while I think he's at work @mamaash @katarama @anessafraga idk why I trusted him 100%
Britany·
Мама двоих (младенец)
He also went on to say well that's why it took us so long to get pregnant with our daughter 😭
anessa·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
You should be able to be 100% honest with your husband and not have to worry about him being rude like that. You don't need that! When he wakes up in the morning confront him about it.
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I agree with @anessafraga definitely should be respected more and idk maybe because you're both drinking he's acting that way? But the whole message from another women is still going to be a thing once sober
anessa·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
Yeah is he usually rude when he has been drinking? Even so though @mamaash is right he sent the message when he was sober so that's a whole different story.
Britany·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Well I called the girl back of his phone she said you're his wife?!? He's married and I said yes with a new baby she said he was coming to her work they went on a date made out then she said he never contacted her again well her number was saved in his phone and he claims to not know her I told him to get me his messages from sprint for proof I feel lied to and he is acting like I'm being crazy
Britany·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mamaash, @katarama @britany @anessafraga
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So he cheated and you've told him that you've spoken to her right?
Britany·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yeah I just got done screaming at him.......... Said prove you didn't and I'll stay if not I'm out by morning @mamaash
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Well the woman had no reason to lie to you. So I'm assuming it's true. But I'm sorry that you're going thru this. Being lied to by someone you thought you could trust 100% is hard. And bc he never confessed. Owned up to making out with her you'll never know if he's done it before or if this is his first time and he clearly didn't feel guilty about it or else he would have told you.
anessa·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
I am so sorry you are going threw this! You are doing the right thing by leaving! He doesn't deserve you if hes going to be unfaithful. If you need anything you can message me whenever!