last time I had sooooooo many visitors. and after my c section. my brother had baby mama drama and my dad got butt hurt cause I didn't want him up there drunk and he wasn't even supposed to know but his ex wife and my little sister posted pictures all over Facebook...I just want peace this time. I'll ask how they go about that.

just tell your nurses that you only want certain visitors and give them a list of names. if they aren't on that list they won't be allowed in the room

Well technically it's a birthing center, not a hospital, so it may be different.

I'm doing the same. At my hospital, you tell the check in lady a "password" and unless the person asking to visit you says the password the ladies are required to say you're not a patient there. It'll make it easier though if you only tell those select few that your actually delivering. Assuming you'll trust they'll keep it a secret as you wish. 😊

Lol that sounds good to me. they didn't ask me with my daughter.

have a list ready they will ask you for one

When you check in they will usually ask you for a list. Or you can do what my friend did and scream at the nurse "don't let anybody in here but my husband or else". lmao